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Caleb, 51

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About Me

Ah, how to describe yourself in order to meet a mate, a match? The balance of ego-centric salesmanship and self-deprecation. Okay...let's see... I'd define myself as complex in thought, deep in feeling, and simple in desires.Most important to me, in prioritized order descending from greatest back: my son (he'll be 10 in July ***, my job and students (teaching really is a calling for me), and just being very happy and in finding happiness in the everyday experience. To me the little things count, they define so much of what others may find mundane. When two people meet and share the special understanding of one vision in those things, well, that's beginning of magic... I think! And, ya' know, that's what I'm looking for, that special vision, that single language, that friendship that is so much more with the woman who I've always known in my heart but was yet to meet.yeah, Magic...I'm not looking for perfect; I'm not a big fan of perfect. I'd rather that my imperfections fit in Her imperfections so that we lock together like two puzzle pieces that had been missing from the scheme for too long. Perfect fit is great; perfection? eh, overrated in my opinion. Square bathroom tiles fit together perfectly but don't link while those puzzle pieces, they hold each other tight.I teach 8th grade math and train math teachers in my school and district. My B.A. is in English (it's a story...you'll like it). My favorite subject to teach was Science but... ah, "...as way leads to way..."As well as teaching I have a small, but fairly successful, side-business. It's fun and somewhat profitable. If we get to the point of talking I promise to tell you about it.You can find me in the gym ***times a week. I'm athletically built but like a linebacker. Not fat in the least, but I've always enjoyed working-out so I'm a muscular guy. Not bragadocio but some ladies don't care for my type; some women prefer the runner/tennis player body or more slightly built guys. I'm just letting you know that's not my build.Wine is preferable to beer, but beer kicks heiny in the summer at a barbeque! One of my earlier lives saw me as a wine salesman.), and, well...those were other lives.Yeah, sounds like a full and busy life, and to an extent it is.; who already knows me but just hasn't met me yet and vice versa.If you've read down this far, if the pics interest you (recent.....NOW?***NOTE: For some reason the site has me as "capricorn" NOPE, I'm a card-carrying Aquarian, January 25th. Just clarifying...***WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** Easy enough... let's get a cup of coffee or a drink. If we spark we'll know soon enough. The rest of the date will live its own life whether to a second libation, a meal, or a polite, "Good-bye" if the chemistry just isn't there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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