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Neil, 53

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About Me

Hello,I’m originally from the east coast but always felt more at home in CA, so in 89 I persisted in finding a job out here (old school -- no internet!) I then packed up and moved without knowing a soul out here. Best decision I've ever made, I guess you could say I’m adventurous.Here’s how I see myself and qualities I strive to have (and value in others):Witty, warm, confident, centered, outspoken, empathetic, loyal, sincere, affectionate and I make a great cup of coffee. Humor is a big part of my personality; I’m the funniest person I know :-). I’ll be the first one to laugh at myself -- can’t take life too seriously.For fun I’m game for almost anything, exploring, long drives, live music (partial to blues), hiking, movies ( I look for sleepers). Lately I’ve gotten into disc golf, it’s a lot of fun -- and I’ve never played regular golf. I like that it’’re not competing so everyone has a good time.It’s clear to me that communication is the most important thing in any relationship; I’ll talk to you about anything you like. Of course most communication is non-verbal so we’ll have a better idea when we meet.I tend to look forward and have a positive attitude, I know that the future is wide open and It’s totally up to me to have my life turn out the way I want, that includes finding a mate with whom we can both thrive (is that you?). I’m generally happy and satisfied with my life and how things are going. People tend to like me and feel comfortable around me.I’m out of a 15 year relationship that ended 2 years ago with integrity (still friends). I look forward to dating with all that I've learned about myself and relationships over the years.I’m looking for someone that I feel comfortable with, has similar values and wants a partner to explore with whether it be a hole in the wall eatery, going for a drive, listening to live music, preparing an awesome meal together. It's the journey and who you're with rather than the destination. Easy on the eyes is good too, but really it’s who you are and that we can be ourselves around each other that is most important to me. I don't like olives or zombies. Here’s the youtube video: http://youtu.be/U3sMjm9ElooGood luck, enjoy your journey. I hope you find what you’re looking for and are having fun along the way! Preferably something outside, maybe go for a walk or to a dog park if you have a dog. Coffee or drinks are fine too, as long as we can talk and look into each other's eyes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Omar

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    I enjoy life and try to look for the good in people, not always and easy task. I have a very keen sense of humor and I know to have fun and not always be so serious all the time. I consider myself to be open, honest, positive, and considerate man, I know to people without any sort of depth to their character it doesn't mean much but, it does to the people I surround myself with. I am a person who enjoys diverse activities, such sports, dancing, theater, museums and just about anything involving the outdoors. I also have a great need to be adventurous and try new things. I am very active in good shape and take good care of myself, it's the only body I have. I have done some traveling and look forward to doing some more in the future. I do hopefully with a partner by my side to explore the mysteries of the universe together. I very romantic and love the romancing aspects of courting and dating, however I am also very aware of a having healthy relationship is very important as well. Perhaps we could meet in a public place...either a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. Then maybe the second date we could go dancing at the Ritz.

  • Joel

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    Welcome to my Profile !!!Before you start reading copy the following link and paste it into your favorite browser to get some music to go along with your *** of all pat yourselves on the back for hopping on this site and spinning the wheel to see what happens. That being said, I have female friends on this site that tell me horror stories about some of the men they meet here so please be careful in your choices and good luck finding what you are searching for..On to me:I want you all to understand that a real relationship takes time to grow and flourish so slow your roll and enjoy the ride...If there is a connection I will let you know as soon as I know... in the meantime, please dont get discouraged if I do not answer right away, I am very busy with my club.Someone asked me to tell you all a story about something I did for one of my girlfriends a while back...I once drove 5 hours north to the mountains just to get a huge truckload of snow on Christmas Eve just so my girlfriend could wake up to a snowy Christmas Morning... I shoveled snow all night to fill out the yard and cover the entire yard all the way around the house. in the morning she woke up and looked out the windows of the front of the house and just started to cry... she said it was the best present anyone had ever given her... This is the kind of stuff I do... can you handle that? It's a tough job but I love it...I am a Rider/Trainer that teaches Motorcyclists how to master their ride...I also have a second job as a Sr PC Specialist managing all that needs to be done.I Guess by now you know I like to ride. I like to ride and see new places... and it would be nice to share some of the things that I find along the way with someone nice...I am not a controlling person nor do I like being controlled, *** and respected as I would to someone else.I dont always look like a biker and I clean up really nice if we have to go somewhere special...I am potty trained and can keep my mouth shut when needed...lol...But I can also be spontaneous and just take over all of a sudden, and then just Hang On!!!I know that women love back rubs, and chocolate, and little surprises, and flowers and encouragement cuz they are like little flowers, if you take care of them there is a beauty that comes out like no other... I'm like one of those hound dogs, if you pet me just right I will be at your feet forever...I like to camp and cuddle by a fire, or just stay home and cuddle... I like to cuddle...lol...I also play drums and love music.I am currently a Disaster Response Member for our neighborhood.I really need loyalty in my life from my partner, I am open to allowing you to get close to me but I must know that your intentions are good... After that "It's On Girl!!!" ;)I am striving to be as rich as possible and I am going day by day to get there... It would be nice to have someone to share the later years with...Will it be you?Special Job Experience: Rock Star.They were sitting at the breakfast table one morning when the old gentleman said to his wife, "Just think, honey, we've been married for 50 years.""Yeah," she replied, "Just think, fifty years ago we were sitting here at this breakfast table together.""I know," the old man said, "We were probably sitting here naked as jaybirds fifty years ago.""Well," Granny snickered, "What do you say...should we get naked?"Where upon the two stripped to the buff and sat down at the table."You know, honey," the little old lady breathlessly replied, "My Boobs are as hot for you today as they were fifty years ago.""I wouldn't be surprised," replied Gramps. "One's in your coffee and the other is in your oatmeal!My Parents just had their 65th Wedding Anniversary... I was raised in a good family...Hugs !!! I am open to suggestions... but If you dont tell me then I will just have to surprise you...

  • Ross

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    Hi, This is hard talking about yourself but here goes!.I’)I’ve been divorced for 10 years a couple of long term relationships which didn’t work out for various reasons some me, some them, but some great lessons in life have been learned, not going dwell on that its history and I’m only interested in going forward a better person.I have two great kids girl 24 and a boy 21 nether live with me, my son still at home with he’s mum (god bless her lol).I enjoy socialising with friends and family which I’m close too.I love to travel which is a pain when single or travel in a group of guy’s which is fun at the time but not what I’m in to if you get my meaning.I’m ever the optimist my glass is always half full and try to treat every day as if it was my last, good thing will come to those who can wait? Or those who go out passionately and grab it!.I’m easy going but no push over with a good sense of humour, I’m passionate, tactile and very loyal, I don’t tell lies and I detest anyone who does.My ideal partner would be a sporty rock chick or someone in to their music I’m in to live music enjoy gigs from the 02 to the local pub, or on the softer side don’t mind a bit of classical if it’s live.I enjoy playing golf at the weekends if that’s a problem there’s always a compromise. Don’t what to bore you anymore but if you are interest get in touch!!.P.S We all have baggage but it’s how we deal with it upfront and honest!, it’s no longer baggage!!!.P.P.S You must be a great kisser x Somewhere quite to chat.

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