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Jefferey, 55

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About Me

I've discovered that I am attracted to people who are passionate about their lives, their life's work, and their future. I enjoy seeing someone in my season of life really excited about what they do, who they are and who they want to be. I have a heart for service, and I pursue that interest through my church, along with like-minded Christians. Faith in God is very important to me. I don't feel a need to impose my beliefs on other people, but I am not afraid to admit I am a follower of Christ.I also enjoy stimulating, intelligent conversation with lots of laughter. Not super cerebral, quantum-physics intelligent ... I just enjoy being around smart people who want to make a difference, who can laugh at themselves, and will occasionally laugh at my dry humor. I consider myself to be fair-minded, interested in what other people think and believe (even if I don't agree with them), and capable of engaging in balanced relationships.If you're still reading, there's a good chance we share the viewpoint that one must know who they are and what they want for their life before trying to be in a lifelong, intimate relationship. So what do I want in a woman as a potential mate? Well, I want someone who has failed enough to know what success looks like, and succeeded enough to know that fulfilling relationships are more about commitment, give-and-take, and balance than sheer luck or fate. Someone who is smart, funny, capable of spontaneity, self-confident. Someone who takes care of herself, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Someone who is fair-minded, passionate about her beliefs, hopeful about the future, and ready to find someone who will love them completely and unconditionally.Wow that's pretty heady stuff, so here's the light stuff. I like rock, folk, and alternative music, psychological thrillers, and Thai food. In my day job, I am a software consultant with my own business. I like beaches, mountains and places I've never been before. I have a beautiful daughter who is a sophomore in high school. I've been in the south most of my adult life. I enjoy tennis, cycling (road), community theatre, museums, and the symphony. If you're STILL reading, you are either in a trance-like state or interested enough to know more (either of which I can handle). You'll find me to be very approachable and extremely easy to talk to, so just hello and let's get to know each other. My pictures are current, by the way ... Coffee or dinner over light conversation. If there's a spark, we'll know ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Chauncey

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    I would describe myself as open, honest and confident. I like to have fun, and laugh with a good sense of humor. I am kind and respectful. Trust is important to me. I keep a positive attitude about things. I grew up spending a lot of time with my grandfather, who I had so much respect for. He taught me a lot and how important it is to have good morals. I like to dance. My music taste is generally classic rock or some old Motown. I don't care for rap or opera. I like spending time on the water, either boating, fishing, or just floating around on a raft an relaxing. I try to workout at the gym 3 to 5x a week. I would like to find someone that is a little active and fit. Because I don't want to get turned into a couch potato. I like spicy foods and general like everything as long as it doesn't have green peppers in it. Doing something outside weather permitting. Coffee or a drink somewhere. Walk and talk in the park, zoo or beach. Tigers Game

  • Joel

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    Welcome to my Profile !!!Before you start reading copy the following link and paste it into your favorite browser to get some music to go along with your *** of all pat yourselves on the back for hopping on this site and spinning the wheel to see what happens. That being said, I have female friends on this site that tell me horror stories about some of the men they meet here so please be careful in your choices and good luck finding what you are searching for..On to me:I want you all to understand that a real relationship takes time to grow and flourish so slow your roll and enjoy the ride...If there is a connection I will let you know as soon as I know... in the meantime, please dont get discouraged if I do not answer right away, I am very busy with my club.Someone asked me to tell you all a story about something I did for one of my girlfriends a while back...I once drove 5 hours north to the mountains just to get a huge truckload of snow on Christmas Eve just so my girlfriend could wake up to a snowy Christmas Morning... I shoveled snow all night to fill out the yard and cover the entire yard all the way around the house. in the morning she woke up and looked out the windows of the front of the house and just started to cry... she said it was the best present anyone had ever given her... This is the kind of stuff I do... can you handle that? It's a tough job but I love it...I am a Rider/Trainer that teaches Motorcyclists how to master their ride...I also have a second job as a Sr PC Specialist managing all that needs to be done.I Guess by now you know I like to ride. I like to ride and see new places... and it would be nice to share some of the things that I find along the way with someone nice...I am not a controlling person nor do I like being controlled, *** and respected as I would to someone else.I dont always look like a biker and I clean up really nice if we have to go somewhere special...I am potty trained and can keep my mouth shut when needed...lol...But I can also be spontaneous and just take over all of a sudden, and then just Hang On!!!I know that women love back rubs, and chocolate, and little surprises, and flowers and encouragement cuz they are like little flowers, if you take care of them there is a beauty that comes out like no other... I'm like one of those hound dogs, if you pet me just right I will be at your feet forever...I like to camp and cuddle by a fire, or just stay home and cuddle... I like to cuddle...lol...I also play drums and love music.I am currently a Disaster Response Member for our neighborhood.I really need loyalty in my life from my partner, I am open to allowing you to get close to me but I must know that your intentions are good... After that "It's On Girl!!!" ;)I am striving to be as rich as possible and I am going day by day to get there... It would be nice to have someone to share the later years with...Will it be you?Special Job Experience: Rock Star.They were sitting at the breakfast table one morning when the old gentleman said to his wife, "Just think, honey, we've been married for 50 years.""Yeah," she replied, "Just think, fifty years ago we were sitting here at this breakfast table together.""I know," the old man said, "We were probably sitting here naked as jaybirds fifty years ago.""Well," Granny snickered, "What do you say...should we get naked?"Where upon the two stripped to the buff and sat down at the table."You know, honey," the little old lady breathlessly replied, "My Boobs are as hot for you today as they were fifty years ago.""I wouldn't be surprised," replied Gramps. "One's in your coffee and the other is in your oatmeal!My Parents just had their 65th Wedding Anniversary... I was raised in a good family...Hugs !!! I am open to suggestions... but If you dont tell me then I will just have to surprise you...

  • Ike

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    Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-62

    I am young at heart, retired Air Force, and love woodworking, and doing anything outdoors. I grew up in the NC mountains and love it here. Parkway rides, hikes, and just plain enjoying nature are a rush! I love to hike and take pictures around the mountains. I'm crazy about waterfalls, creeks and rivers. I'm looking for someone who feels and acts as young and energetic as I do. I'm not ready to retire to the easy chair! I like all kinds of music, but mainly country, and Classic Rock, Blues, (and a little Bluegrass). On occasion I listen to piano solos and movie themes, to relax. Mood seems to dictate the music style. I am affectionate, passionate, and love getting it back in return. I am a giver. I live to take care of and pamper the person I'm with. I enjoy cooking, and serving. As well as and finding new foods and cuisines. Watching a good movie is absolutely awesome, especially when cuddling close with someone you love! I enjoy most all types of movies. Mostly, I love to see my special one happy. If she's happy, I'm happy!I have met some beautiful people. In this complicated world that surrounds us, it's that "random act of kindness" that sets us apart. When we genuinely care, and aren't afraid to show it, we lift up those around us and the world smiles back. A peaceful meeting, and dinner, or coffee. A short (or long) walk to share likes, and life experiences. HAVE FUN!

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