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Xavier, 52

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About Me

I’m a freelance writer who honestly believes we're just artifacts of the random motion of sub-atomic particles. Unfortunately, i've found that this belief is of only limited utility when having one’s prostate examined or answering the question “Do I look fat in this?”I’m passionate about ideas; interested in almost everything. I can talk intelligently about things I know absolutely nothing about. Except hockey.’s knees were still good. I’m open to new ideas, activities and experiences. When not checking ten times to make sure the oven’s off and the door’s locked, I have mastered a zen-like calm.Much to my surprise, I have discovered that I actually do suffer fools well. This means that I will be able to get along with those friends of yours that you’ve had so long that you can’t really remember why they’re your friends. As well as family members who get shunted off to the “I don’t know where to put them” table at weddings.I’m reserved, rather than gregarious. Loyal, supportive and undemanding, without a hint of jealousy. I do, however, insist on honestly answering questions asked of me, on the generally false assumption that an honest answer is desired. I will repeat this, even immediately after suffering the consequences of the first answer. It’s a feature, not a bug.I’m pretty down to earth (which i think just means that I never have, and likely never will want to own a watch that costs more than my last car), easy going and undemanding. I can’t imagine life without bacon. I like kittens and hard liquor. I refuse to pay $12 for a drink in a martini shaped glass, even if it is an actual martini. The first book report I ever wrote, in Grade 4, was on a book by Mickey Spillane. I have been known to give a copy of “The Myth of Sisyphus” to babies as birthday presents. I also have a fondness for actuaries.There is one particular Red-winged Blackbird in High Park who insists on attacking me every time I walk past his tree. Finally, sitting by a lake with a bottle of Jack on a clear moonless night, the milky way tucked in around me, is the kind of artifact I can truly celebrate.So, what am I looking for? Either someone who, based on my picture, thinks I’m hot, or someone who finds the above appealing. Someplace well-lit and with metal detectors, given that, in my experience, quasi-intellectual women are usually packing heat. Or we could just go for a coffee or a drink on a patio.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Delmer

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    I’m one good man, but I’m not perfect.I work hard at my job, but it is not who I am.I love to travel and experience new surroundings, people and life styles. I love to laugh, read, and work in my flower beds and around the yard. I always have a new project on the go. I have been single for several years now and feel it’s time to start looking for someone to experience the coming years with. I am never late, but also never in a hurry. I want it all. I want the Dance. I am happy, I have a good life. I just want to share it with someone special. I am looking for the one woman that can stop my beating heart and be the woman in my life I’d be willing to die for. A woman who knows no bounds for all the joy life can bring. Who laughs till her sides hurt and is more capable of forgiveness than condemnation. A woman who understands what it means to be human and a woman, but does not believe she knows what it's like to be a man. Someone who has let go of her past, forgiven herself and others and is ready to move on. If you still have baggage from your past, or unfinished business please take care of it first. I don’t need Drama, jealous husbands, drug addled children or wacked out women in my life. I am not your savoir. Normal, with a normal upbringing and relationships would be good.P.S. If you would like to respond or say hi please do so. You cannot get what you want, without reaching for it. Honesty starts here, and should never end. Head games are not included nor encouraged. Life’s been good! Please include your recent picture with your message as I no longer reply to those without. If you want to hide, do so from me as well. I can't be bothered with nondescript persons. Lets say dinner,a movie,a walk maybe. With any luck, Holding hands and a kiss goodnight. Waiting for your eyes to shine. A very big smile on our faces and a far away look in our eyes. If all goes well.

  • Jack

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    Man. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 36-53

    Hi! My name is Jack. I am divorced spiritual but not religious caucasian man with kids from Willow Grove, Pennsylvania, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Romeo

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

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