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Colleen, 45

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About Me

Hello,Silly opening considering I am very down to earth. I recently moved from the Carolinas and miss them quite a bit. Why? I loooove to be outdoors. I love to hike, swim, run, camp, walk, bike...I am an artist at heart and I am very compassionate. I believe that people should treat others the way they want to be treated. My goal right now is to live life to the fullest, not to count on a computer only as a tool. My second goal is to move from this are in June. I would like to move somewhere that is somewhat more diverse, or wherever my heart takes me. Another aspiration is to become a better person. We all have things we can change about ourselves and sometimes we need reminders. I think that is fine. I welcome that. How can I fix it if I don't know it is broken. I am an artist at heart and travelled the world for 19 years. It is a great learning experience but eventually it gets old. Good friends are far away and it is nice to have a place to call home. I love music, especially live music. There are two things I cannot live without, music and laughter. If there is no laughter there is no relationship. I have written better descriptions but this will give a pretty good idea of who I am. I treat others kindly even if they are just a face on a screen so to speak. The person on the other end has feelings. Always treat someone as if it was the last time you were going to see them. I like to let people know that they look good or anything positive that I can say. I opt to find the positive in everything. I have had a very trying year and have made it. My outlook now is so different. I am proud of myself and my accomplishments.I love music, it depends on my mood.- The first date should be something special but not a nerve wracking experience. I have found it very pleasing to go out with a man who is mature but loves to laugh. The place doesn't matter it is the person you are with. For me a man who opens a door for me would be very nice. A very elegant restaurant would not make me feel special but uncomfortable. If later we click fine. McDonalds would not be acceptable. If my date would carry on a conversation and know where to take me that would be awesome. It doesn't have to be so sterile that he can't ask but I am a bit tired of telling the man where to go...I am not picky so the effort counts more than anything. A great first date does not include a movie as it doesn't help us get to know one another. Finally a first date that involves anything unexpected would be great. Something silly, fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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