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Anita, 41

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About Me

I have two fantastic kids, my son is 22, in college and my daughter is 18 and in the Navy. I'm looking for that spark - I want the one I can't wait to see again and he feels the same, we all need space at times so someone who understands that as well. I'm not perfect and neither is he...but together, we are AMAZING...orrrr we at least have a lot of fun together! I like to have fun and laugh. I find happiness in the most simplest of things in life, I don't sweat the small stuff, pretty laid back, adventurous, silly yet have a serious side and somewhat athletic. I like running in events like the Warrior Dash... in fact I just signed up to run in the Rugged Maniac on December 14th! In general, I like staying active but also love those quiet moments at home. I have spent the last 22 years dedicating my life to my kids but there are so many things that I still want to do and would like to find someone who would like to join me, or make fun of me as I do them. One of my "to do" items on my list is to skydive!!! I may have to wear a diaper when I do it but i really want to jump out of that plane!! If you would like to know more send me a message. Just a meet and greet location and if things go well we can decide from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Melisa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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