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Bernadette, 41

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About Me

First of all I wasn't going to get back on this site after the last two guys I dated off here yet changed my mind and I'm not going to give up. I'm just going to lay it out there if I don't respond to your messages don't take it personally unfortunately you may just not be what I'm looking for and I can't respond to all and there are plenty of fish. PLEASE BE LOCAL. So now a little about me I am 41 with 3 children 23, 21, and 11. My youngest is the only one at home. I enjoy many outside activities camping, boating, swimming, running etc... I am looking for a sweet, loving, compassionate man and he must not be possessive especially after the 1st date makes a girl run. I want a man that is attentive, smart and funny. You can't be a couch potato. I love to stay busy and active. If you want to date me and I've responded to you then put effort out if not I'm not going to waste my time. Just keeping it honest and upfront. Dinner or drinks

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carole

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    . I enjoy almost anything outside, going to the beach or outdoor festivals. I enjoy cooking and going out to eat of course, trying new places whenever possible. Music wise I enjoy, southern rock, old rock n roll, blues, anything but opera and rap, lol.. I have no children but love kids and am willing to be with someone who has kids if we have that connection. I also enjoy hot rods, car shows,pow wows, any outdoor festivals but especially the Renn Faire...I love animals and all the beauty that nature has to offer...... I was married for 5yrs and have been divorced now for 3yrs and am ready to find that person who completes me and makes me a better person. That person who looks at me like I am the one he cant live without. I am honest to a fault which sometimes gets me in trouble and am looking for someone who is honest right back. Oh yea, and tattoos and a Harley are a def plus, lolOh yea..and one more thing, you cant be allergic to cats, because my kitties arent going anywhere, lolIf you have any questions just ask Hmmm..Could be alot of things for a first date. But if the weather is nice. A nice first date could be getting together and going on a nice bike ride, getting lunch somewhere and kicking back somewhere outside and getting to know each other. I am pretty easy to please. Laughter and good conversation is def something that makes for a second date.

  • Elnora

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am mother first. With huge love of music and shooting guns. I love the ocean, any time I can be in or near the water, I am. If I could do anything it would be to learn to play guitar. I support our soldiers. I like riding horse and Harley's. I give 100% to my relationships. To my children. My close friends. My fam. The right guy just hasn't come along. I have 2 dogs, a cat and 2 lizards. I don't shoot animals and I don't want to hunt. I enjoy target shooting and would really like to train to do long distance competitive shooting. I'm very outspoken. And I want someone who is the same. Someone who will be my best friend and lover. Who loves a free spirit and music and who knows a friendship with my kids will be important to "get the gold" lol cuz you won't last long if you aren't genuine. Trust me baby I can't be faked out. Lol see ya on the flip side! Hope to hear from you. Shooting range. Dive bar with a juke box, sitting on the bank of the river... Whatever ... You wanna do, within reason. No pervs. I will call you out on it. Peace!

  • Stella

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If your profile says you are non-religious, please move on. That is a deal breaker for me. I am a single mom with 2 children, ages 10 and 13. I want someone who makes me laugh. I am a smarty pants once in awhile and I want someone who can take it and dish it right back, all in fun of course. I want someone who I am comfortable with in all areas of our relationship. I am looking for a good, loving Christian man who is accepting of children and understands that mine will be around most of the time and are #1 right now. I am hoping to meet someone fun, that likes to go out and have a good time once in awhile. I enjoy spending time with friends by the pool or by the fire. My family is small but very important to me. Ultimately I want a serious relationship with the man that I can call my best-friend. There is so much more to me that we could talk about so let me know if you are interested. The perfect first date for me would be going for sushi and a couple drinks. Just talking over dinner and getting to know each other.

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