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Lara, 44

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About Me

I am a single mother of two grown children. I've been divorced for 4 years. I enjoy travel, good wine, good conversation, walks on the beach, strolling through interesting quaint towns, antiquing, dancing, shopping, good movies, and nice dinners. Would love to meet someone who has similar interests. Would prefer someone who is educated as well as emotionally, financially and physically sound. I am most attracted to guys who are physically fit and somewhat taller. I would prefer meeting a gentleman who has grown children. Sorry, to say, I love kids but don't always like the "baby mama drama" with some guys and their exes..lol..no offense to anyone. Also, my ex husband and I parted amicably, hopefully that is the case with you?? ; ) Nothing harms a new relationship faster than old hurts that re-surface. I am only asking for what I could provide as well. I am confident that the right one is out there!!! Could it be you? Thank you for reading my profile!! Hope to hear from you!!P.S. An automatic delete: " I am 40 going on 30"..denial is a powerful thing, but I don't want to be there to comfort you during your mid-life crisis. Also, pics that are shirtless (unless you're on the beach ), blurry, over 5 years old , you with a former wife, girlfriend, lover, tranny whatever.?? Are you serious? Someone who says they are very "European" in their outlook, aka "Gigolo"..no thanks. I could go on, but really common sense ain't so common. Especially, on here. Happy Fishing.LOL!!!! Coffee and conversation..or vino and apps. Keep it casual.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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