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Benita, 45

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About Me

Well like I stated above, I'm here just peeking about. I have not dated for over 6 yrs. I have an 14 yr boy, and I enjoyed the time w/ just us. I live a quiet life. Do not like to be around drama or chaos. I love being outdoors (usually doing yard work). I love to read. Going to parks. Camping,Barbeques. Love the beach but not around here huh? City girl stuck in a ghost town. A different way of life for awhile.I do say what's on my mind. Very straight forward. Know what I want and like. When we get older we don't mess around..LoLI'm a pretty goofy girl, and am always smiling. Am not looking for a bump on a log kind of guy. Must be energetic and happy. Would like to meet someone my age or younger.I enjoy most kinds of music, (not Country). Classical, heavy rock, mainstream. Favorite bands..311, Nine Inch Nails, Black Eyed Peas,The Black keys, Josh Groban..you get it.I'm a conservative, so If you are a Liberal we cannot talk..Lol.I am not looking for someone to take care of me. Am super independant. Not looking for a father for my son either. Just a friend.PS I am not your cowgirl!! On first dates I want to feel relaxed. Time spent at a park or a bite to eat is nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Blanca

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a fun loving, easy going type of woman. I just took up golf and am totally addicted to it! l like to stay active, but I know how to relax. I like most types of music, My #1 priority in life is my daughter. I love my family and close friends and i'd do anything for them. .....I choose to be single. I have 2 kids, one who's moved out and one still at home with a busy social calander so that and work takes up most of my time. I like to go out with somebody fun and positive who can make me laugh & enjoys the same things. I love the out doors...all seasons, i'm not a priss about stuff. I like watching sports (CBJ hockey & BILLS football) and eating wings & havin some beers and I also like dressing up to go out for a nice dinner and some wine....I've got a level head .....work sohard.......and NO DRAMA! Looking for someone to hang out with and do fun stuff together....see where things go....nothing serious too soon. I think it should be short and simple......time is too precious to waste on bad dates!

  • Stella

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am not your passing fancy or eye candy for you to flaunt. I am seeking the ONE and wont settle on anything less than that. Ive been in here a few times and gone for good reasons. My man should put me a prioroty, hug me when Im sad, hold my hand for strength and always, always have my best interest at heart. If you are a player then get out of my pond I have no time for you and will not be nice either. I know what I want and dont want. I am a good woman which I know are few and far between but trust that I will prove myself with class. My Mom raised a lady and I expect to be treated that way. A man = should stand behind me when he thinks I need back up - should stand beside me when he thinks I need the power of ***should stand in front of me when he thinks I need protection. I dont think Im asking too much. In return you will have a good woman who is honest and loyal to a fault. Plus I can cook haha. I run my own business and do not expect you to financially support me. If you think that you can be that ONE then feel free to message me. Dont take it personal if I dont get back to you asap as I do have a life and will not be in here every day. With all that being said heres a little quip to give you insight.I seek your jealous spirit; my soul for you to haunt will be layed upon your altar. A soul to require trepidation;for momentarily it craves that touch of warmth in self expression.Still I become quite entirely the angel at your feet, yes, chastise my fallen graces.Drawn to your desiring eyes the threshold into your life as my disguise portrays self control. So I seek your jealous spirit; my love for you to hold will be tattooed upon your heart. A bottle on the beach!

  • Lorene

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Anything u would like to know just ask..happy fishing!! ;) just that I've been here b4 didn't work out so I leave it for u to ask Me anything ud like ..will say not into bar scene I'm more of a work alcholic these days ..been told over n over have a great personality n I always try to look at the bright side of things most of the time tired of things n ppl trying to break me down ..I'm strong,..n learning how to b independent women on my own once again..I have a big heart with lots to give sooo if u think u have sum good qualities id love to hear from ya What ever we both feel comfortable with...I'm up for anything fun!!!! dinner,drinks,walk etc surprise me

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