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Socorro, 41

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About Me

Not sure where to begin. I guess I can start with I had a ten year marriage. Been divorced now for about 3 yrs. Have had a few relationships in that time. One stands out the most for me because it was off and on for awhile. So you could say Im a forgiving person. There comes a time when you realize you are nolonger yourself. I would like to be with someone who can describe me to someone who has known me my whole life. If your in love with me. You should know who I am with you or away from you and you should trust me. If there is no trust there is no relationship. I have a very bad habit of meeting men that need some sort of fixing. Financially or need a place to live. Or they are very insecure with themselves. I enjoy outdoor activities when the man im with walks with me with pride. Not punish you for being beautiful. Im very protective of my children. I have a 21yr old son and 14 and 7 yr old daughters. I have a full time job that I love. I plan on owning my own home this coming March :) Dinner and alot of talking. Will want a great connection . If not no second date.Just an added note IM NOT ON meetville LOOKING TO GET LAID. I WANT A RELATIONSHIP. GEEEZZZ DUDES. DO I LOOK LIKE I NEED TO BE ON HERE JUST FOR SEX.. NO! OCT 12TH ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Essie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hello and welcome! As you might notice from some of my photos, I spend much of my free time outdoors, being in/on/by the water and camping (with all the accoutrements my SUV can hold). I'm definitely an outdoorsy, girlie girl.I also enjoy getting lost in the hilarity at comedy clubs, catching a flick on the big screen, going to ball games (I LOVE the junk food), live music on a patio somewhere, hiking, biking, kayaking (need to learn, actually), fairs/festivals and traveling, of course. Finding new/interesting places to spend the day/weekend is always a blast. Even though I do occasionally smoke, I would never do it around anyone it offends. It is a take it or leave it thing for me, but I wanted to be honest about it. I'm still trying to decide where it is I want to plant my roots, but for now I am spending some time with family who lives here. Honesty, intelligence, great communication skills and a varied sense of humor are the "usuals", and top o' my list. I am also attracted to people who are not the PC or GQ type. I love individuals who stray a bit from the norm and who are thoughtful, open and upfront, slightly adventurous, playful/silly, gentlemanly...I would like to find someone who enjoys being active (not hardcore), but who is also content to spend a rainy day inside watching movies together. Or, going out to play in it!I'm not looking to jump into something serious right away or too fast. I like to take things as they come naturally.I'm all for making the first move, just so you know, but I'm rarely on here searching profiles. I sympathize with the men who do make the first move and don't get any kind of response back. But, persistence pays!**********************************************************************************************************************************************************************If you click the "Meet Me" button, those notifications go to my spam folder, which I rarely check, and those that click it usually go by the photo alone, so it would be best to message me here, if interested in getting to know one another more. The options are limitless! But a first date probably should start simple (and escapable - har, har).Meeting for lunch or Happy Hour is a great start.

  • Geneva

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi. Thanks for looking. I will be up front and honest right off the bat. I don't want to be someone's convenience or option. I want to be with someone who will make time for me, just like I will for them. I want someone that wants to be with me, spend time with me and do things with me, even if it's just sitting at home. I don't want to be the one who always calls or texts you first. When we meet in person, keep in mind that I'm not looking to be married tomorrow, and I am not interested in just hooking up or one night stands, so if that's what you are looking for, keep searching. I want to be able to see if we can click as friends, and see what happens from there. I am easy going and love to laugh and joke around. I can be sarcastic, but it's all in fun. I'm a people person and get along with just about everyone I meet. I adapt well to my environment and handle myself well in a variety of situations. I like being inside or outside, prefer summer and fall over winter (I don't like being cold!) I like being at home being a "bum" but I also like getting dressed up and going out. I think you have to have a nice balance between the 2. You can't stay home all the time, but I don't want to be out at bars or whatever all the time either. I don't mind getting my hands dirty, and be a tomboy, but I also like to dress up and be a lady.I'm honest and have been told I am a kind, patient, giving, and caring person. I like helping people when I can. I treat other people the way I want to be treated. I like all kinds of music but usually listen to classic rock and country. I like a wide variety of tv and movies. I've been told I'm a good cook. I'm more of a night owl than a morning person. I've been told I'm a "damn good woman" with a "heart of gold", and I am faithful and loyal to my friends and to my special someone. I love animals, dogs especially :)When I'm in a relationship, I'm affectionate and love to give and receive affection. Things like holding hands while walking together, or sitting on the couch watching a movie and my head on your chest or shoulder. I also like to do little things for that special someone I'm with.... writing little notes or texts to say I'm thinking of you... little gifts on occassion (like a toothbrush or pencil with your favorite team logo on it)... things like that. I also believe that it's not what you're doing, but who you are with that makes things fun. You can have a great time doing anything or nothing at all if you're with the right person!I'm not a plaything, and I wont be someone's woman on a string. I have 3 older kids (ages 26, 20 and 15. The 15 year old and 20 year old are with me sometimes) I have a good life. I don't demand respect, I command it, and I don't think it's too much to ask that I be treated with respect, honesty, and like a lady. Please have table manners. Whether its a meal at home, a burger at McDonalds, or a fancy restaurant. If you make more of a mess at the dinner table than a 1 year old, chew with your mouth open, and make all kinds of noises while you eat... it's just not going to work for me. Yuck. I drink occassionally, I swear, and I smoke (some days more than others). I do not do any sort of drugs. I don't think I'm better than anyone else, and I'm not a judgemental person. I don't care what kind of job you have, or what kind of car you drive, and I don't care if you live in a mansion or a beat up cardboard box. Money doesn't matter when it comes to being happy with someone! I'm not looking for a sugar daddy or someone to rush in and pay my bills or take me out all the time. I believe a relationship should be be ***, and there sometimes has to be compromises made. I'm former USMC, have a couple tats, and I do not tolerate liars, or people who do not follow through with what they say. Once you break honesty and trust, it takes a long time to get it back with me. I believe that If you're going to talk the talk, you better be able to walk the walk! I'm a firm believer in "A man's only as good as his word" and "Karma's a bi***, and she has puppies". If you're only going to message me to tell me I have a "nice rack" or ask "what's your bra size", or to tell me that you "have a big one"... then DONT. (Its amazing to me that you would message someone saying that, and then wonder why you're single??) If you are ready for what I have to offer, send me a message :) If I don't reply, I'm not interested, sorry. Please do not send repeated messages. I DO read every message I get, and If I am interested, I will reply back as soon as I can. Thank you :) Surprise me with anything that doesn't involve bunge jumping or parachuting :) I don't think a movie makes a good first date because you can't see each other, or talk to each other. A first date should be one where you can talk and focus on each other to see if there's a click between you. I also think a first date shouldn't be all fancy dressy uppy. It should be more laid back casual where both people can be more of their true selves. Everyone cleans up nice, but I want to see the real you, how you are on an "everyday basis". So wear your jeans and a Tshirt and a ball cap! Be comfortable and most of all be on time, and be you!!

  • Alyssa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi! i'm 42yrs old now! but im not ready for a rocking chair...I like to laugh and make other's laugh too! lifes to short to be a stick in the mudd... or act like you got a stick somewhere else??????????? I dont get along with people that act like there better than someone else! trying to get back in shape....pray for me..lol i'll need it. I love all kinds of music, and FOOTBALL'.....come on 49er's it's been along time.....going to the beach, boats, never been on a plane! gotta try that one day! when the weather is good... hahhahaha gotta have my morning coffee that sounds old? oh! well.....Im a BIG TALKER' ......... somewhere public lots of people lets admit it i don't know you, and you don't know me there will be plenty of witness...........

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