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Darlene, 42

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About Me

Right to the point. I DO NOT want to meet someone for sex....especially not on the first date lol...I chose the casual dating selection because I believe in the natural evolution of relationships..I'm not driven to find a relationship but am open to that possibility if it happens. I did not make that choice because Im looking for a quick hookup...which sadly seems to be the interpretation a lot of the time lol. .Im not sure what the "dating" world has come to in the last fifteen years while I was away, but I'm left wondering...has the internet robbed everyone of the fun of just meeting someone new? So, that being said,..I like life, the beach, I love live music and dancing. I love photography, both taking my own pics and viewing others work. I love to travel and hang out with my friends. I work hard and own my own business, I am independent and adventurous. I dont usually do a lot of "sitting around"...unless its somewhere I wanna be, like the beach with an ice cold beer, or in front of the fire once it gets to chilly for outside.. :-) I'm hoping to meet people who appreciate most days as gifts, and don't take life for granted. Id like to find someone to hang out with who possesses a great sense of humor, life is better when youre laughing!!. drinks, maybe some music, a walk, coffee,something easy and low key that gives us both a chance to see if we'd like a second date..:))

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

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    I'm discovering new talents every day. I have absolutely zero attachments. I am happy, and loving this time in my life because I know I'm beautiful without looking for anyone to tell me, I'm in great health (I exercise 2 hours daily), and I'm taking all the kid schedules in stride. I'm not overwhelmed with any issues, I'm happy with my life, and I plan to stay happy. You will fall in love with me if we meet, my happiness is contagious. You will not try to control me or make me feel less than what I am. You will be a good man who is honest, even when it hurts. Little white liars are men I've dated before (well ok they weren't always white) but I am staying away from negativity. I hate all kinds of roller coasters. I recently had a miraculous rebirth, from the ashes of my life. This has completely transformed me psychologically and physically. You will find new things to experience together. I'm not closed to a relationship, but I used to attach easily and I really just want to experience life and living for the first time. I am supportive of my friends, freely give and receive love, and I am 100% genuine and real. In time I will tell you the story of when I was crazy (it's a tragicomedy) if you want to hear it. It's really inspirational, especially to me! I can't wait to chat with happy, sane people who are accepting of love's free-flow and not afraid of letting whatever develop. I love myself for the first time in my life, and I know you'll find me addictive. I hope to find the male version of me; he will be awesome, smart and really, really cute. Lets meet someplace with a table and arm wrestle to see who gets to choose where we go.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a hard working women. I am looking for a friend that I can connect with. I try to be a very positive person. I want the best for me. I will not settle for anything less than I deserve. I want someone to fall in love with, I have never had a true love in my life, I want that badly. New to this site, I am not interested in a hook up, not my style. Please don't contact me if that's your intention. I would like a friend to spend time with.I consider myself loyal and caring. I would like to go to dinner to get to know the person. I have never been to wine country, that's another option:) would love that.

  • Valarie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello :) I'm a single mom of an awesome 19-year-old daughter. I am a writer by profession and passion. I'm a full- As a features writer, I cover the "good news," entertainment, dining out, people and events. I've interviewed many celebrities and, in short, love my job. I've also published three fiction books, a series, geared towards pre-teens and teen-agers. My hope is to someday share those books with the world and become the next JK Rowling :) I enjoy all kinds of music and love going out to see it live. My soft spot is and always will be for hard driving, mind freeing rock! But I also like dance and country, and even some classical. I love to watch movies, but my favorite genre is Horror! If it's scary, I like it. Love old black and whites, all the way up to new films with crazy special effects. I also like comedies, but really don't enjoy mushy-gushy girlie flicks.I LOVE Halloween and it's my favorite day of the year. I have more Halloween decor than Christmas and very much get "into" the spirit of things. Speaking of spirits, I'm also a member of a paranormal investigation team. Yes, I'm a ghost hunter.Hope to talk to you soon! UPDATE: Please realize that meeting on a site such as this has no guarantees of love and happily ever after. If you meet someone, talk and decide to take the next step, as in meeting out in public for a date, PLEASE understand that it is a chance you are both taking. It may work out, it may not.I just encountered a PSYCHO and nearly had to call police. I don't ever want to feel like that again. Therefore, if you are looking for love at first sight and if you don't get that you are going to freak out and threaten my job and Life, Please don't even look at my profile. Thank you. That being said...A great first date would be meeting at an upscale bar and having a few drinks and even more laughs. I'm not picky and definitely not high maintenance, but would love to share some laughs with a wonderful man.

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