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Jenna, 40
United States, Ohio, Dublin

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About Me

When I was a kid breakfast was usually puffed wheat. Growing up in a household of six, puffed wheat was purchased in bulk. On shopping day my Mom would have to bungee-cord the bags of puffed wheat that were as big as beanbag chairs to the top of the old Volkswagon Beetle and then drive home carefully.… occasionally we could talk my Mom into buying the little sample variety packs of cereal and there was nothing better than those days when we could get up early on a Saturday morning, watch cartoons together and open up all the little boxes of cereal (you were supposed to be able to cut them open and use them as a bowl… but that never worked out well.) We’d have six types of cereal all mixed together…I'm essentially happy with the balance of life. I have family, good friends, stay healthy, practice a regular fitness routine and have assorted hobbies and enough time off for whatever adventure or project I feel like tackling. I feel fortunate to have a job that I really enjoy, and I feel generally lucky in life. I'm looking for someone interested in dating with the goal of developing a long term relationship... Staying curious, and learning more, creativity, health, fitness and living a balanced life with a balanced cheque book are important to me. I’m generally an at-home piscivore, occasional social-carnivore. Regarding drink, I can't say that I drink socially, or that I don't drink at all.-two alcoholic drinks a month.I hope to find a conversant partner who also believes that physical attraction is important, but mental stimulation, consideration, kindness, responsibility and thoughtfulness are also essential components of enduring mutual attraction. I feel it is as important to give back and volunteer in the community as it is to have time to do one’s own thing and to try new things. I prefer to figure things out and fix things rather than to throw them out.What are you doing this week? Would we ever run into each other and talk? This weekend I'll be at a farmers market, a youth theatre production, having tea with a friend to talk about her science-based art project, cooking food (fresh from the farmers market,) fitting in a workout and a swim at the beach or two, perhaps a few chores, and going to a family gathering. I'll be catching up on some reading in the evenings to wind down. Things that might make you run away: I’ll be wearing braces for about another ***months, and that makes me feel pretty amusingly-awkward at times, especially for first meetings... also: I have some pretty geeky hobbies. I’m not a minimalist. I enjoy dressing up for the occasional creative public event. I think gummy candies are a fun postmodern treat. My flaws include: indulging in puns and sarcasm, not being perfect, too many freckles, and treating my little car like it’s a wheelbarrow as I'm often getting things for the garden. For me the point of being on this dating site is to meet people who, like me, are comfortable in their own sense of character, and to try to find that elusive connection with someone... and actually meeting in person to see if there is that common ground and spark. So, if you’re genuine and intrigued, and think that you might be ‘my cup of tea’ and I might be yours, then please send me a message. First meeting: casual.Coffee, tea, or meet at a farmers' market ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Art Activities Chinese Korean Adult Documentary Mystery Basketball Outdoor Hobbies
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  • Nita from Dublin | Woman | 39 years old | Sagittarius
    Nita

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Ok, so I've heard others say they've met people this way, hmmm? Although somewhat pessimistic, (cuz freakazoids might be lurking) I'll give it a try, nothing to lose. My two daughters and three dogs (chihuahuas) are my world. I work in the legal field and I'm very passionate about what I do and even more passionate about people that become a part of my life. I adore kids and equally adore animals, especially dogs.......kids and pets........my weaknesses!! :***If you don't like kids then we have nothing in common already, buh bye). I've never been the outdoor-activity type but it's probably because I haven't been exposed to it. Wouldn't mind giving anything a try as long as I've got someone leading the way. I crave knowledge and new experiences. I want to see all the places I've yet to see, experience all the things I've yet to experience and taste every bit of life that I've yet to indulge in. I want to savor the flavor! :-) I enjoy music, specifically R&B/Pop/Hip Hop/Country and more. Laughter is a priority! Sense of humor is critical. Laughter and love is what it's all about. Everything else is secondary. I don't believe you have to have 'everything' in common with someone to be compatible.I have never, ever, EVER cheated in my life. Never have and never will! I don't wear my heart on my sleeve however I wear it very closely under my sleeve, a sleeve of sheer lace, sometimes peeking through the openings with caution, exhibiting bursts of warmth & adoration, and within due time, can be fully exposed, but only for the right one, the one who can make my heart smile. :- No liars. No drama. No mind games! I'm highly allergic to BS. Say no to drugs and yes to hugs! :-)Anyhow, would be nice to make some new friends. Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile. Desire is to want something. Passion is to refuse to live without it. “Wait for the guy who calls you beautiful *** hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's *** am truly, madly, deeply a hopeless romantic just dreaming to be swept off my feet and to give the same in return.) To my soulmate.....the one written into my destiny.....although we haven't met yet, until the day we do - I'll continue to dream of you! Please don't say you're looking for someone with substance, someone who takes care of themselves physically, someone who has got their "act" together, someone who knows what they want, one that prides themselves on loyalty, honesty, and compassion, someone who stays true to their word, someone REAL, unless YOU possess those qualities yourself. Don't expect someone to offer you, what you are not willing to be in return. Life's too short to play unnecessary games. It's all about taking chances and making memories. It's not just about finding "The One", it's about finding "The one who makes your heart smile"! "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together" - Unless you're a Transformer and at some point during the day you turn into your car or motorcycle, pics of your rides do nothing for me.Would I impress you with pics of my fancy hand bags, or would that mean absolutely nothing to you?? Exactly! ***, have pics of yourself! I want to see you! I don't care what you drive, where you live, what you wear or how much money you have. What matters is what's in your heart. Where do you come from and where are you going and will you stop at nothing to get there.Intellectual stimuli is so important. The brain is the ultimate erogenous zone. Talk. Explore. Ask. Be alive.I'm not looking for someone perfect, just someone who's perfect for me. I don't mind making new friends but essentially, I'm on here to find my "happily ever after". Life is such a beautiful ride and there's nothing better than traveling this incredible journey with someone special.Every moment of your life is a chance to make a memory, don't waste it away. When you're in your golden years and reflecting on your life, what memories will you have?! Make every moment a memory! :-) Laughter & Love! :-)Sure, there's plenty of fish in the sea. But there's also sharks, seaweed & toxic waste. Good luck in all your fishing and aquatic endeavors! And when you catch one, the right "ONE", real 'em in and never, EVER let 'em go.:-)

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  • Clarissa from Dublin | Woman | 39 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I feel the need to be a smart ass...because most people do not take this stuff seriously. So, here it is...the real crap...not can answers people front on these sites. False advertising is completely annoying... SOOOO....GUYS....post current photos, your real age and an actual close up clear shot so you can be SEEN. A quick word about bathroom mirror pics of any kind...just don't. PLEASE... just don't. Have a friend take your picture...we are visual creatures...show us girls your best! This is our first impression of you...so please...IMPRESS US! ;) I am a real person with real feelings that is capable of loving the hell out of someone, but that must be earned. Clearly, I am still looking. :) I am single by choice... I will not settle. I am intelligent woman that finds intellectual conversations sexy but I also find a funny man equally as sexy...combine the two...and well...that would be friggen amazing! AND....Let's face the fact, we are all looking for someone we are ultimately attracted to not only physically, but emotionally and intellectually...what can I say? Handsome, loving nerds are pretty damn sexy in my book.... If you are creative too...well then...HEY...Bonus! (I think I said "sexy" plenty of times to get your attention here.)I am aware of my worth and what I can offer as a partner and expect no nonsense game playing. I give respect and expect total respect in return. I have a ridiculous sense of humor and want to find someone that "gets me" and can dish it right back....quick wit...it goes very far with me. I am a creative being by nature and deep thinker... BUT can have fun and not take life so seriously too! I have been separated over 4 years and divorced for over 3 years. I am ***with 39 creeping up fast) but have been "accused" of being 10 years younger... So good for me I guess... Looking young with the wisdom...I'll take it! My head is on straight...my kids are amazing and I am beyond happy...life is beautiful! I define my own happiness, as opposed to some that are in constant need of approval from others in order to be happy. I am confident and will not be that needy girl wondering if you are thinking about me. (because if we are mutually crazy about each other....I know you will be...) I do not need a man... It just would feel amazing to want one! ;)I promise I am not a snob, a **** or some spoiled brat... mostly sarcastic...but aren't we all? So don't judge a book by it's cover...it's not cool. I'm always laughing, smiling and enjoying life...I imagine my partner having the same outlook as well. Common question I get... why am I on a dating site? Because I am a mother, a full time college student and have my own business. With a schedule like that...my only option is meeting college kids nearly half my age...ummmm.... NO!! lol I do go out, but the likelihood of meeting a man I want to date while out is pretty slim too... so this is how I attempt to meet people. It's been an interesting and educational experience...hence my smart ass profile. lolI am highly driven and passionate about my career path in the art industry and value family time tremendously. Men that are driven and passionate about the things and people in their lives is an attractive quality; and if he is confident in who he is as a person and we could equally support each other....that would be the man for me.I love music sooo much...it's part of my process when I work... I listen to pretty much anything... I love country, rock, pop, techno (great motivator), blues/folk... but sometimes silence is golden too. First dates are not impossible, but will not be free flowing willy nilly ...just sayin... a girl has to protect herself. I have no desire to lead someone on or waste anyone's time and expect the same in return. :) So some correspondence is my requirement prior to agreeing to meet. If you can handle that...then let's talk...Thank you and have a nice day...and don't forget to smile! :)

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  • Hilary from Dublin | Woman | 36 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Ok...so a little about me. Well when I have "free time", I typically either go to the gym, ride my bike, or run. I have really gotten into boxing and kickboxing lately. No, I don't "fight" with anyone. It's just me and the heavy bag. And sometimes the heavy bag wins... When the weather is nice, I like to do all kinds of outdoor stuff. I play softball in the spring, summer, and fall. I somehow became team captain three years ago. I'm still trying to figure out how that happened. I ride my bike alot in the summer too. Yes, for all of you non-riders, I used to think that was crazy too! I'm usually up for doing anything, which in turn means that I'm absolutely horrible in making the decision as to what to do. I would like to think that my personality is "easy going", at least I try to be. I can be very sarcastic at times. Sometimes I just can't help myself. I tend to be a little quiet when I first meet someone but watch out once I get comfortable with you! I like just about all types of food (or I will at least try it) and I like most music (I lean towards alternative but I have found that "alternative" has a very broad meaning nowadays). I do have a daughter so if that's an issue, I won't waste either of our time. She is 17 so I don't have the babysitting issue that most moms my age do! I've heard that is a common excuse!

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