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Vera, 37
United States, Ohio, Dublin

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About Me

I act like a lady, think like a man. Don't read too much into that! I'm easy going, no drama, playful & independent. My life story is one that will make you say wow. I didn't grow up with much. I developed a mind that thinks creative and that is also resourceful. I didn't really date in High School, I wasn't confident with anything in my life. I spent the first part of my life watching others. I was clueless about my own life. I fell in love at 18 with a man who took me to church every time the doors were open. I was more in love with what he did for me than him, but it still broke my heart when he moved on. A shattered self esteem and a clueless teenager, I just went with the flow of life. At 21 my world changed with the birth of my son. At 25 I had my daughter and what seemed to be a stable marriage. I'm not really sure what happened but in ***my divorce was final after 18 months of separation.The past 7 years has been a transition for me. I learned to express myself and share my feelings. To become "someone" and feel that I have meaning. Only to have it come back and hurt me. People use to say I wore my heart on my sleeve so I learned to let go of emotions. I have a spiritual connection with God that I'm VERY aware of. My daughter had emergency subdural empyema surgery Feb. 7, ***for a brain infection. She is fully recovered and doing well but I was told she should've been dead. This was another life altering experience. Suddenly, things in this world are less important and people have suffered for my change. I don't want a relationship with my computer, through a computer or phone. So much of life is NOT appreciated because you try to make someone feel a certain way through a device. It's stupid and people are held accountable for their lack of actions of responding. I choose to look at life rather than my phone. The type of guy I'm looking for… or what I'm looking for in a guy. This question is always asked. I am looking for a different level of connection. You can be physically fit, attractive, financially secure and loyal to the core and I may not connect with you. It's very hard for me to connect online so the online part is just a filter. I know my picture says Christmas ***. If you mention it, i know you you havent read this yet ;)There are things about you that I observe that say a lot about your character and personality. I won't tell you those things because I believe everyone should be exactly who they are. It's your life!!! LIVE IT! :) Be a MAN of great faith! "When your affection is kindled, the world of your intellect takes on a new tenderness and compassion. You look, see and understand differently. Initially, this can be disruptive and awkward, but it gradually refines your sensibility and transforms your way of being in the world.”

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Funk House Techno German Spanish Turkish Fantasy Western
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Well so far dating has not been a positive for me in any way, shape, or form. I wouldn't say I am a picky girlie, but I do know the kind of person that I click well with. I'm not writing a serious relationship off. But I don't have much faith left in the idea of being with Mr. Right. So let me tell you the basics on me and then I will tell you what I am looking for. I'm a pretty upfront person. I'd say I have a good head on my shoulders. I'm a TOTAL Gemini so I can be flip-floppy. But don't confuse that for flakey. I can be slightly stubborn at times, but fair, and I won't sugarcoat squat. I'm very strong willed. If I say I'm going to do something I do it. I'm also no pushover. I have a lot of ink and always adding. My ears are gauged, nose is pierced, and I don't dress like a soccer mom. I know when to tone things down. But will not change for anyone and wouldn't ask anyone to for me. I have a teenage son who lives with his grandma. Good reasons, not bad. I've also been happily divorced twice. I'm human and made bad choices. I wasn't letting my son grow up with bad role models. With that being said.. Who am I looking for? Basically people who enjoy the same interests I do. That is an absolute MUST. Physically I tend to go for tall men. Especially blondes. A bit of honesty.. I'm not attracted to bald men. It's not personal, many women are. I'm just not.. I'm sure some men don't like redheads ;. Men who are confident and know who they are. I do go to the gym and follow a good diet, so I prefer men who are the same, age ***. So I'm only interested in talking to men who are fairly local. If I were to hit it off with someone I would't want a long distance thing and I won't relocate ;) Sense of humor is a must. You have to be able to keep my wheels spinning. Not an easy task. Take a look at my interests. If you think we may mesh, hmu. If I'm interested I'll get back. If I don't please don't take it personally and good luck. If the company is right, it doesn't matter.

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hi there, I'm the one in white in the photo. I am on here to meet people other than the work place or the bars. I am enjoying life right now and hope to meet someone special. I don't have a type per say but know when I find someone attractive, personality really helps that. It definitely is not all about looks, however since I like to physically take care of myself I would hope the person I meet also does. I love the summer time much more than winter and I do listen to all kinds of music from R&B and dance music all the way to Country music. I am open minded and enjoy pretty much anything active and different. I love it when someone introduces me to new things. Anything where we can hold a conversation and get to know eachother.

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