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Nita, 39
United States, Ohio, Dublin

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Ok, so I've heard others say they've met people this way, hmmm? Although somewhat pessimistic, (cuz freakazoids might be lurking) I'll give it a try, nothing to lose. My two daughters and three dogs (chihuahuas) are my world. I work in the legal field and I'm very passionate about what I do and even more passionate about people that become a part of my life. I adore kids and equally adore animals, especially dogs.......kids and pets........my weaknesses!! :***If you don't like kids then we have nothing in common already, buh bye). I've never been the outdoor-activity type but it's probably because I haven't been exposed to it. Wouldn't mind giving anything a try as long as I've got someone leading the way. I crave knowledge and new experiences. I want to see all the places I've yet to see, experience all the things I've yet to experience and taste every bit of life that I've yet to indulge in. I want to savor the flavor! :-) I enjoy music, specifically R&B/Pop/Hip Hop/Country and more. Laughter is a priority! Sense of humor is critical. Laughter and love is what it's all about. Everything else is secondary. I don't believe you have to have 'everything' in common with someone to be compatible.I have never, ever, EVER cheated in my life. Never have and never will! I don't wear my heart on my sleeve however I wear it very closely under my sleeve, a sleeve of sheer lace, sometimes peeking through the openings with caution, exhibiting bursts of warmth & adoration, and within due time, can be fully exposed, but only for the right one, the one who can make my heart smile. :- No liars. No drama. No mind games! I'm highly allergic to BS. Say no to drugs and yes to hugs! :-)Anyhow, would be nice to make some new friends. Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile. Desire is to want something. Passion is to refuse to live without it. “Wait for the guy who calls you beautiful *** hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's *** am truly, madly, deeply a hopeless romantic just dreaming to be swept off my feet and to give the same in return.) To my soulmate.....the one written into my destiny.....although we haven't met yet, until the day we do - I'll continue to dream of you! Please don't say you're looking for someone with substance, someone who takes care of themselves physically, someone who has got their "act" together, someone who knows what they want, one that prides themselves on loyalty, honesty, and compassion, someone who stays true to their word, someone REAL, unless YOU possess those qualities yourself. Don't expect someone to offer you, what you are not willing to be in return. Life's too short to play unnecessary games. It's all about taking chances and making memories. It's not just about finding "The One", it's about finding "The one who makes your heart smile"! "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together" - Unless you're a Transformer and at some point during the day you turn into your car or motorcycle, pics of your rides do nothing for me.Would I impress you with pics of my fancy hand bags, or would that mean absolutely nothing to you?? Exactly! ***, have pics of yourself! I want to see you! I don't care what you drive, where you live, what you wear or how much money you have. What matters is what's in your heart. Where do you come from and where are you going and will you stop at nothing to get there.Intellectual stimuli is so important. The brain is the ultimate erogenous zone. Talk. Explore. Ask. Be alive.I'm not looking for someone perfect, just someone who's perfect for me. I don't mind making new friends but essentially, I'm on here to find my "happily ever after". Life is such a beautiful ride and there's nothing better than traveling this incredible journey with someone special.Every moment of your life is a chance to make a memory, don't waste it away. When you're in your golden years and reflecting on your life, what memories will you have?! Make every moment a memory! :-) Laughter & Love! :-)Sure, there's plenty of fish in the sea. But there's also sharks, seaweed & toxic waste. Good luck in all your fishing and aquatic endeavors! And when you catch one, the right "ONE", real 'em in and never, EVER let 'em go.:-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Hardcore English Irish Italian Middle Eastern
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