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Viola
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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 37-47
OK. Cards on the table...D'oh!! I keep adding to this...So, while I totally get this whole MILF thing and can appreciate positive comments, I am not into random hook-ups (my passion's a bonfire when its with someone I love) and will continue being the "master of my domain" until I meet my special dude. I've waited a looong time, I can hold off some more *sigh* lol. Before you go thru the time reading below, I would like to share that my FM (as described below) has flared up and has affected my ability to walk great distances. I am cruising in my new ride these days :) I get up and push through every day, so I am not reliant on Ol'Betsy, just makes getting out (which I love to do) easier. And hey, makes that first date stigma a little less unnerving, no way I'm beating you out the door ;)I am a good ol' canadian chick. I love hockey, cooking/baking and being outdoors. I am suburban over urban. It is rare to see me without my smile and I live for fun. I love life and I truly can find joy and amusement in the smallest of things. Ok, ok - yes I'm a big goofball! ;) My life is highlighted by my 10 year-old daughter. She is absolutely my pride and joy. I am lucky to call such wonderful people my friends and they, along with my family, are the most important things in my life. Although slowed by Fibromyalgia (pain in my joints and muscles/tissues), I push through and try to live life to the fullest. And to be completely honest, there are some bad days...days where I'm stiff (that's what he said lol) I am definately a glass-is-half-full kinda girl. I know that having someone by my side, will make those "movie" days much easier (and oh-so much more fun!!). In my good ol' days, hiking and playing hockey were my passions and I am determined to continue to find my "cure" that will allow me to get back on the trails and ice one day!! Something to be said about me is that I am positive and pretty strong willed. I love trying new things. Would like to find someone who is willing to try/teach scuba diving, skydiving, etc, activities that my body will allow me to enjoy. I am intelligent, confident, generous and outgoing. My faults...well, I can be sarcastic ~funny, not mean; I am very passionate ~sometimes too much so; as I mentioned above, I am strong willed, but have no problem conceding defeat and agreeing to disagree; and I do love to shop ~I have this desire to have my cupboards stocked...its a homemaker thing ~ and yes, I love shoes...its a girl thing (I am proud to say that I'm the queen of bargain hunting)!!! I believe in Karma, paying it forward and that things happen for a reason. I really, really love to learn and feel there is always room for self-growth, be it from meeting new people or seeing new places. Excitement lies with experiencing new adventures.I don't play mind games and demand this same respect back. I want someone who ,can communicate, is open and honest and says what they mean, and means what they say. I am looking for someone real and not someone with a 'cover' identity. I would like to meet someone who is confident and outgoing. Although we'd want to spend time together, he'd be someone who also is comfortable with enjoying time apart. I am hoping to find someone where our chemistry is such that we can have a great night snuggling watching tv then have our passion explode and we can't get each others clothes off fast enough ~ I believe this to be a very important part of a relationship. I've tried the long-distance relationship bit and have concluded that, for the most part, I am not willing to relocate my daughter again. Obviously, if I were blessed in finding my soulmate, well, anything's possible. I am proceeding with this "dating" thing very slowly so don't take offence if it takes time for me to respond. (and to be honest, its a little overwhelming being a girl on this site). Although ultimately I do want a long-term relationship, I really need things to start off as friends and slowly build from there. I have realized that pressure to proceed into something serious too quickly, will deter me and have me backing away. I should also say that,at least for the near future, I have 100% custody of my girl, so my time is somewhat limited. But in saying this, I have found myself feeling lonely lately and craving MY mans arms wrapped lovingly and protectively around me, while he kisses the top of my head. I really do want to find my Forever. (whew...women sure do have lots to say lmao!!)If you are looking for something 'quick', well, move on then 'cause you're barking up the wrong tree.Happy Hunting ;o)MxoxoUPDATE - ok, so I yammered on quite a bit above, but by the content of many of my received messages, a few main points seemed to be drowned in all my writing. I have Fibromyalgia. Its a chronic systemic pain condition that impacts my daily life, much like arthritis. I also am a single-mom of an amazing and very active 10-year-old. Managing these both on my own is very challenging and time consuming - although, my situation has been both a burden and a wonderful blessing. I am receiving disability benefits, and because of my working hard all my life and choosing a wonderful career, I am able to raise my daughter financially on my own. I mention this because I don't want false judgment thrown at me, in that I am looking for someone to pay our way. I do want someone who is well aware of my challenges and knows that I love life and want to share the rest of it with my soulmate. oh...I also should mention that i am currently of a voluptuous body-type (NO, not bbw), but not a stick - I do have curves in ALL the right places ;).. Damn...too much writing again! Lmao! Go-Karts, skydiving, hockey game, cage diving South Africa, pool, nookie kidding!! ;=sister's wedding in the beginning of October ***?? I'm a great travel companion ;)
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Esther
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
I am one of the good ones who has flown under the radar most of my life. I am private and loyal, so the people in my life are decidedly special to me. Once I accept you in, you are in for life unless you do something that shows me you want out. I hate to give up, especially on people. I believe we all have something that makes us special and beautiful to the right people, the trick is finding them! Some are better at it than others, and I'm here on meetville because I'm not an attention getter or huge extrovert, but I know I have a lot of offer and really want to meet a great guy who lives not too far away. I like to take it slow, and I want to understand people's motives before I let them in. (think of me like a cute squirrel that you are trying to train to take food from your hand. but once i'm feeling safe in your hand, you'll have my heart 3)I love PA and have a happy life here but I'm missing having someone special to share my time with. I would date outside of my town and would move for the right person. I work with people with disabilities and for the SPCA. I am also a part time photographer and even though my schedule is busy, I always make time for a fun activity or two. My life is peaceful, I love the mountains and have spent a lot of time hiking on the island.I am very honest, loyal, responsible and trustworthy. I love to talk with people who know a little about the world and have wisdom to share and to to learn about the world and beyond. As for why you'd like to meet me, I have a big heart, have my %*#$ together and appreciate the simple things in life the most, like a heartfelt hug and a good conversation with a coffee on the side :) And though I feel like I've had a lot of luck in my life (I prefer to think its good Karma from doing what's good and right!) I have gotten to where I am with hard work and dedication to my goals.My "type" of man is intelligent but goofy, tall and healthy and young at heart without the party lifestyle :) take a hot air balloon ride at sunset to a great outdoor concert where there are only front row seats. But a close second would be a nice chat and a nature walk followed by my favorite coffee at steam punk cafe :)
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Maura
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I want to leave this earth knowing that I tried to be the best I could be and not be afraid to try new adventures. I love the beauty of nature and going on hikes, road trips discovering and exploring and swimming and oh I love to dance. I miss dancing! I feel that I am unique because I believe in the real core values of life and what lasts and believe in old fashion values and integrity and tradition sometimes. I believe in being honest, upfront and true in being yourself and expect the same in others to. Don't be somebody or try to be somebody that your not. I am very cute****in believing the best in people and things. I love all kinds of talented music and inspirtional and positive song. ****! ****ing ****ing ****ing.! My first date was at a county fair! I was only in grade 9 and very nervous and scared, barely talking. He was very understanding and sweet. We went on the different rides and enjoyed the different attractions at the fair. I thought he will never ask me out again but surprise he did and he really liked me. What was wrong with him I thought but he was a very smart and nice guy.