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Lolita, 46
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

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About Me

I want my next relationship to be full of laughs, passion, and devotion. I am not looking for a hook-up. I have enjoyed dating just for fun, but now I am looking for something longterm, and maybe even permanent--and still fun!The qualities that I find especially attractive in a man are a witty sense of humor, intelligence, thoughtfulness, honesty, and kindness. Things that turn me off in a man: shirtless profile pictures, arrogance, adjusting yourself in public, and spitting. I hope that isn't too much to ask;)I'll treat you with respect and always let you know where you stand. I know people often claim in their profiles that they don't play games, but I really don't. I'm not a good liar and break a sweat when I'm expected to pretend to be something I'm not. I'm mentally stable--I promise--and pretty perceptive. I'm trusting by nature, but skeptical by way of experience. I know guys often look at the pictures and skip the reading, but if you've gotten this far, you already must like what you see.I take good care of myself and am pretty low maintenance in the beauty treatment department. Occasional manicures, but no fake nails. Just enough color in my hair to keep it the shade I'm used to. No fake body parts. I like to think I look good for my age, but don't pretend to be a hardbody. I'm at a point in my life where I feel good about my appearance and work to keep it up, but won't pass up a good dessert or bowl of cheese dip.Life's too short. Thanks for being curious enough to read this far. If you're interested, message me. Expect at least one real phone conversation before an actual face-to-face. I learned that one the hard way. Best of luck, and hope we both find what we are looking for out there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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