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Shelby, 49

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About Me

I am passionate about many things... At the Top of my list is my Love for animals. [If one of your hobbies is hunting please move on.] Tied for first place, next to cats, dogs and all creatures great and small.... is a love for food (aka a foodie + vegetarian), nature, art and music. Traveling to new places is something I could do all the time. ('just have to win lotto!). I have been fortunate to have traveled to some really cool places. I'd love to share some new countires, villages, cities, hamlets...venues with a wonderful man! -- ...Perhaps you!! I adore the beach -- the feeling of walking on sand and hearing the waves as they crash on shore is like nothing else! (oh..yeah... love to swim/ ride the waves).Friends and family have described me in many ways. Here are a few adjectives that I have heard them use: kind, free spirited, funny, compassionate, determined, creative, sensuous, ambitious, and peaceful. I think one's strength can also be one's weakness. Having said that.... I can be opinionated and straightforward.... as I know what I desire. Remember the scene in "When Harry Met Sally" when Sally is particular about her food order.. ... Well... that's me. I am looking for..... A wonderful man who likes to laugh and has a good sense of humor. A kind- hearted soul who has an easy going nature.... and is as good of a listener as he is a talker. A person of great character who "walks the walk" ..... A stand-up man. Assertive when need be ...... I take good care for myself (appearance and health), so it makes sense that I am looking for someone who does the same. A great first date.. hmm.... great conversation and making each other laugh...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tammy

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    WARNING: I make no apologies for who I am and where I am in life. Drama and alcohol ahead.If you're perfect, lived a perfect life, a perfectionist, or expect perfection..... Want to call me 'Hun' , 'Honey', 'Sweetie', or 'Dear'.....I'm not the girl for you.The past 18 months have been a roller coaster for me. Divorce from hell this past year. Trying to start over after 18 years of marriage. Spent a year drinking myself goofy, (thank God I never tried drugs ha!), spent 76 days in jail ( yes...real jail!) pondering life , meditating, praying, talking to God, wondering wether to take anti-depressants or not (decided 'no'), running a business on one brain cell and a single fragile emotional thread. Oh ... and watching a lot of documentaries, dark drama and historical fiction on NetFlix cuddled up with my dog. How the hell does one 'start over' at our age?I worked in the medical field for 12 years, radiation physics and dosimetry. In my second life, I owned and operated a CrossFit gym from ***until last month. Getting ready for my third life... currently preparing for law school....studying for the LSAT. Hope to obtain a dual degree in law and social work. I'm not going to lie...physical attraction is very important to me. I want to feel crazy about the person I am with. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. I'm not marriage minded...looking for a friend that can also stimulate me intellectually, who doesn't mind a girl a tad on the eccentric side. I'm an optimist and a huge fan of humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, we probably won't get along.It is my perspective that "things" and "events" in life are neither 'good' nor 'bad'...they just 'are' and that is the fiber that makes up the fabric we call 'life'. Everything happens for a reason and every situation can be an opportunity to learn something new about ourselves.How's that for honesty? Now if you still want to chat... We'll talk about all the 'fluffy' stuff....and you're one brave man. Anything that doesn't involve alcohol. Surprise me, I'm game!

  • Kaye

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a kind, caring, honest and sincere person. I love to make people happy and in return I receive inner happiness. I love to smile, laugh and have fun... I am definitely a positive thinker...a true go-getter, motivated, determined and always striving for more. I am a very inquisitive person. I have many goals and aspirations. I am very passionate about everything I do. I love the outdoors (camping, boating, walking the beaches) I enjoy sporting events as well. Would love to begin to travel again. Long weekend getaways are my favorite. I own a small business which affords me flexibilty. Im a casual laid back kind of girl. Dont get me wrong, I love heels and shopping too!I have two great boys, ages 13 and 16 and they do live with me. I am looking for a man who is in touch with his feelings, and certainly not afraid to express them. I am hoping to meet a loving, caring, hopeless romantic (and you wont be disappointed either). One who is empathetic and is willing to communicate. A fun, lighthearted man.Try not to sweat the small stuff.. Like most genres of music. Music can change a mood. Enjoy live music. Please the only reason I ask for you not to respond, is if you still live with your wife and say your separated.For me a relationship means giving my all to you and making you feel as if you are the most important person alive! arent you? casual atmosphere, coffee or lunch, a long walk on the beach to talk and get to know one another....

  • Cassie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I enjoy walking/hiking, fishing, boating and going to the beach or just being near the ocean. I love being outside! I enjoy cooking and entertaining or just staying home cuddling on the couch. My best quality is my sense of humor! I like to see the good side of everything! After ending a long marriage and raising 2 kids I'm going to start putting myself first for once and start living my life. Looking for that special person to do it with! I guess it would be nice to go out and just get to know someone over dinner or drinks. I believe first impressions tell a lot about a person and I'm usually a very good judge of character! Looking for someone who has a great sense of humor!

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