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Sallie, 49
United States, New York, Huntington

Offline, last seen Wed, 04 Feb 2026 17:57:18

About Me

Ok so this being single thing is getting to be a bit challenging for me...I was part of a couple for so long, I'm struggling with taking that initial leap back into the singles scene, and frankly, even before I got married it wasn't my scene, so maybe that's why its even harder for me now. I've done all the hard work of getting my head together, letting things go, getting back on track and finding myself (Im being a little sarcastic here, only because this is what people have told me I need to do to "get back on the saddle")....but at the end of the day, I'm a good person, and I have good morals and a stable life, so isn't that what really matters? People say anything to try to give you that little push to rebound yourself back in the game, but I really don't want to be in the game. I just want to find one person that I can trust with my life and love with my heart---it's that simple.I think as we get older, we know what we're not looking for as much as what we are. I am definitely not looking for someone who needs to be taken care of. I am an only child so independence and responsibility has always come naturally to me...I'm looking for someone that gets that and is responsible as well. With that said, it does not mean I am not emotionally supportive...I just want someone to walk beside.To me, attraction is very important, but isnt always good looks. It's someone who's heart shines thru in their smile or has an attribute that they view as a flaw but I think is adorable. Personality by far is the biggest attraction....a sense of humor is a must...a sarcastic sense of humor a bonus. Another big one is stability and safety which to me means someone I can trust with my life...someone I have respect for and that respects me. Someone I can see myself growing old with. I'm blonde, so I do dumb things sometimes, mostly without even knowing which ends up making it even funnier--I'll admit it. Oh, and I'm not crazy...that seems to be a bonus on sites like these :) I have great kids but they're older now and are busy working and doing their own thing, so I find I have a lot more time on my hands.So.......guess there's only one thing missing. Hmmm, what could that be???? Someplace public and well lit...public so there's no pressure....well lit so I can see where I'm going if the sudden need to run like hell arises :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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