Total users: 63,165,304 Online users: 227,167
Bethany, 47
United States, New York, Hicksville

Offline, last seen Sun, 07 Jun 2026 01:52:26

About Me

So I recently thought I had found my shining knight, but here I am. If at first you don't succeed; try, try again.I am not really a hobby type person, but I don't begrudge people who have them. I am open to trying different things to find something fun to do. I am open to almost all types of music; some of my favorite genres are classical, top 40, 80's, jazz, classic rock. I like stand up comedy and most movies. I usually prefer movies and books that make you think but like the comedy - need to laugh again.No more children for me but as I have a couple (one left at home), if you have them it is not a problem. Would love to travel more: have a few holiday destinations in mind - I like to dress up or down - enjoy 5* dining as well as a great steak or burger at a BBQ. I love Spa's - that is my personal indulgence.I will always be voluptuous and love wearing my heels. I would love to find someone to go dancing with.I am an animal person. Must admit that I am not what I would consider romantic -.. I have always said I would marry my best friend - the 'however' is my best friend is a woman. I don't believe she is interested... She isn't really my type anyway. I have tattoos (and getting more) and like if you have them, not into piercings personally tho - standard earring for me.Is my perspective the same as everyone else? This really depends on the day things are written - I am a woman; this could be a 'I feel really blah and unmotivated' day, it could be a 'I feel really sexy today - let's rock and roll!'One of the "tests" I took did a really good job of putting it in a nutshell:Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.How to Get Along with Me:• Stand up for yourself... and me.• Be confident, strong, and direct.• Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.• Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.• Give me space to be alone.• Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.• I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.What I Like About Being Me:• being independent and self-reliant• being able to take charge and meet challenges head on• being courageous, straightforward, and honest• getting all the enjoyment I can out of life• supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me• upholding just causesWhat's Hard About Being Me:• overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to (this is a BIG one)• being restless and impatient with others' incompetence • sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it• never forgetting injuries or injustices• putting too much pressure on myself• getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go rightHere are some things about you.Don't tell me you are 6'2" when you are really only 5'10"..... please whip out a tape measure and check if you are not too sure! These things are noticeable.... and if you are not able to be truthful about the obvious it will just make me wonder what else is not being told. You will be able to be to the point...but not mean. Just tell it like it is. Honest communication is very important.... Please have some indication of who/what you are looking for in your write up. Time is precious and there is no point in wasting it. Gainfully employed is a must (sad I have to say that) as well as you must be a non-smoker. Goal orientated; Intelligence and humour are important - the mind must be stimulated sometimes more than the body..... however the physical part is very very important.... An abundance of facial hair is a turn off for me; a little is not a problem. Pic for a pic, Gentlemen - it is only fair. Not sure what is meant.... first date or first meet? Meet = coffee (that way either of us can bow out gracefully) to make sure the person in the profile resembles the person I meet :-)Date = dinner in an out of the way place with a medium noise level; that way we can actually talk :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Italian Spanish Adult Martial Arts Mystery War
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Katheryn from Hicksville | Woman | 47 years old | Pisces
    Katheryn

    Offline

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    please if you are only looking for sex please dont contact me, i am not only my body, i have a mind too. DAMN guys. I'm a cute, young looking 47year old who is looking for excitement, adventure, romance and cuddling. I am single after an eighteen year relationship with a man who was none of those things. I have my son who lives with me, he is twenty five and has down syndrome, I have had men who couldn't get past my sons disability, if your one of those types then no need to get in touch with me. I also will not respond to anyone who sends disgusting pictures or is vulgar....etc. However, I also enjoy today's music but no country, new upbeat country I do like. Send me a hello if your interested in chatting. I am looking for someone who is adventurous and spontaneous if this is you, im here. I would like my date to plan whatever it is for our dates. I haven't been treated as a woman in a long time, my ex never took me out to eat, to movies nothing. I want excitement and decision making abilities from my new man. If this is what you want, especially surprising me because I love to spoil my man.

    Chat
  • Kelli from Hicksville | Woman | 47 years old | Leo
    Kelli

    Offline

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm a positive, professional woman enjoying life. My kids are grown and I'm embracing this new phase in life and all it has to bring.The following is how I would describe myself and what I'm looking for in a man:- Believes it's important to have fun and laugh, even if it's at their ownexpense- Gives to others less fortunate- Has a career that is challenging- Does the right thing, even if it's not the easy thing- Enjoys throwing on a hat on a Saturday morning and lounging dressingnice and going out that night- Likes sports and the outdoors, but neither to an extreme- Looks forward to spending time with others- Wants a person in their life that is independent, and wants to be with someone (not needs to be)Life is so good and is meant to be enjoyed with someone special. I'm looking for some to adore and to be adored. Something casual like coffee or a drink. If we click, we can decide on the next step.

    Chat
  • Haley from Hicksville | Woman | 48 years old | Sagittarius
    Haley

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Looking for friends right now if something happens more then we are both lucky.I'm in at a point in my life I don't need a man in my life but it would be nice to have one. I'm very busy with my new profession and my multiple children but would be nice to find someone to cuddle with when the two schedules matched... or even to have someone to talk to when there isn't time to meetI'm to old for the one night stand... and to young to be alone for the rest of my life... but I"m not looking for a marriage.. but a long term friendship / partner who we go home to our own homes more than we stay together.... If I find the right person that leads to marriage then bingo, if not that's ok also.Would like to find someone to go to the Y with me... it's so much more fun to do it with someone than it is alone.I'm not skinny but I'm not obese either. I wear size ***pants and shirts. You don't like that that's ok ... Some one will.Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. some place quiet for coffee,so I can hear all the new and exciting things about you. Coffee, tea or soda is a great place to start. That way it doesn't make someone feel they are being taken if there isn't a connection. OH and by the way both parties showing up and clothed would be nice:D.......~~~.......~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ .......~~~.......~~~.......~~~.......~~~For all my USMC friends....Have a safe journey home :D

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: