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Trisha, 42
United States, New York, Franklin Square

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About Me

I live for the moment but look to the future, and I look past the obvious to understand what is not easily seen...I don't believe in just "settling" for something, as I have found out from past experiences...it's not all it's cracked up to be.Chemistry is at the top of my list, however I also understand it sometimes takes a while to develop. If you want to know more...I have a diversified outlook on life...so I cannot define it in a few short sentences...anyway, we must leave something for later!I do enjoy being around those who make me laugh though...so hopefully you have a sense of humor! I am a mixture of a lot of different things; I am a great cook, but quite handy also...I am very independent, but appreciate a man to act like a gentleman...I am very outgoing, but can also be shy at times...I'm hoping you get the idea :).I'm spiritually and emotionally intelligent, I'm hoping you know what that means so that we are actually able to communicate :) Living in integrity is also very important to me and I expect it of those around with me. I would prefer that you have already done some transformational work or have engaged in some level of personal or spiritual development so that we could at least speak the same language.I know how to love ...I will be touching your heart and your body quite often.When we meet, I'll probably be more interested to know your heart and discover what you care about most before I concern myself with the "facts" of your life.I'm seeking a loving, connected, passionate relationship with a partner to share my life with, not BE my entire life so I appreciate that you have your own interests, aspirations, friends and things that make YOU happy. I'm passionate about my work, so it would be great if you also enjoyed yours. I also like to read and enjoy my creative time writing or just being inspired.I'm equally invested in my emotional, physical and spiritual well-being and hope you feel the same way. I do my best to stay active (for the most part :) meditating, praying to God, walks with my dog, eating healthy and socializing with friends.About You...I'm most interested in being with someone who really loves their life, is extremely confident, sensual, healthy, physical and capable of intimate relationships. Kindness is also important.Someone who is self-aware/spiritual, great sense of humor without being 8 (no offense to 8 year- However....if one of your pics is you holding a fish or a rifle, then I'm probably not interested, I do appreciate the outdoorsy type, however if that is your idea of enticing a woman to date you, then I am probably not for you. Also if you have issues communicating, or challenges expressing yourself in the written form (i.e. can't spell or have poor grammar...I just want to be honest, it would annoy me in the long run as I am a writer by heart and would appreciate someone that can at least string a few sentences together :)Chemistry...Having all of the above plus a bright smile, a face that I would enjoy gazing at, and enjoy receiving warm HUGS from would be icing on the cake!I'm busy truly actively enjoying my life and building my businesses so please know I'm just NOT interested in connecting with anyone who is a casual dater or just wants to play the field.I am looking for a long term partner (or possibly a life partner) so I would appreciate someone with the same goal :)Best of luck to you otherwise! Let's keep it simple:A quiet place where we can enjoy a meal or a drink and some deep conversation. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fitness / Gym Caribbean German Turkish Archery
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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