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Elma, 45

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About Me

tattoos appreciated but not required!!!I have one tattoo.I am outgoing, passionate and have a slightly sarcastic, and at times, dark sense of humor.I'm looking for chemistry and friendship to start. It doesn't always lead to love and I'm ok with that. I do want to fall in love eventually. I want a long term relationship with that person that i can trust, has my back, we make each other laugh and we can't wait to see each other. I love to give and get affection.I like to do a wide variety of things, like, being on the back of a motorcycle, festivals, road trips, movies, beach restaurants, boating, hanging out, exploring...***disclaimers***If you are significantly younger than I am and think that I, as a woman over 40, are dying to have sex with you because you're in your 20s or 30s, you're mistaken. And, no matter how many ways you explain to me that you want a relationship after we have sex, I'm not falling for it and I am not interested. Maybe someone your own age would be easier to con ;) Please don't waste my time or yours. I don't lie or cheat and expect the same in return.I look like my pictures. I didn't get bigger or older ;)If I'm asking you questions and you're just answering them and not contributing anything else or asking me questions, it's not a conversation and it appears you're not interested and I will stop asking you questions. Please don't message me in a few weeks asking why we stopped talking. I like to meet first over coffee or a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Crystal

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am new to this online dating. My friends actually set this up for me originally, so I am here givng it a try as I am a firm believer that life is short and too precious not to spend it with someone special. I have an out-going personality. I like to spend time with family and friends. Family is my priority. I have two children who I adore. SO if you do not like children, you should move on.I am a very sociable person. I love going out to dinners at different restaurants, going to movies, and other events. I am really not into the club scene, but I enjoy going once in while. I like to go to bars and pubs occassionally with a group of friends. I like all kinds of music, love to dance and sing. I love animals. If I could, I would own a large amount of land and have a barn with horses and other animals. I am a country girl at heart, though I love the city life and all that it entails. I am interested in someone who has a big heart, a stable career, and a desire to be in a committed relationship. Honesty and loyalty are qualities that are extremely important to me. ("How do you live your life when nobody's watching?") I am a very good friend and very loyal and expect the same from those around me. I am looking for a person I can count on in all situations, someone who will be my best friend and make me laugh, someone who has strong family values and a strong work ethic. I am looking for someone who loves children, family, and God. I would like to meet someone who has an infectious personality and who isn't judgemental or condescending.Let's see: I love sushi, Mexican, & Italian foods... not necessarily in that order.I love date nights: nice dinner and a movie, going out with other couples, dancing and socializing; but I also love family nights: movie and popcorn evenings, cookouts and swimming, games and desserts.I like reading, relaxing in the sun, bike riding, shopping, going to sporting events and tail-gating with friends, listening to live bands, and much more... If you are interested in *** talking, respond. It is important that you have an updated picture and a bit about yourself in the greeting.

  • Trisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I live for the moment but look to the future, and I look past the obvious to understand what is not easily seen...I don't believe in just "settling" for something, as I have found out from past experiences...it's not all it's cracked up to be.Chemistry is at the top of my list, however I also understand it sometimes takes a while to develop. If you want to know more...I have a diversified outlook on life...so I cannot define it in a few short sentences...anyway, we must leave something for later!I do enjoy being around those who make me laugh though...so hopefully you have a sense of humor! I am a mixture of a lot of different things; I am a great cook, but quite handy also...I am very independent, but appreciate a man to act like a gentleman...I am very outgoing, but can also be shy at times...I'm hoping you get the idea :).I'm spiritually and emotionally intelligent, I'm hoping you know what that means so that we are actually able to communicate :) Living in integrity is also very important to me and I expect it of those around with me. I would prefer that you have already done some transformational work or have engaged in some level of personal or spiritual development so that we could at least speak the same language.I know how to love ...I will be touching your heart and your body quite often.When we meet, I'll probably be more interested to know your heart and discover what you care about most before I concern myself with the "facts" of your life.I'm seeking a loving, connected, passionate relationship with a partner to share my life with, not BE my entire life so I appreciate that you have your own interests, aspirations, friends and things that make YOU happy. I'm passionate about my work, so it would be great if you also enjoyed yours. I also like to read and enjoy my creative time writing or just being inspired.I'm equally invested in my emotional, physical and spiritual well-being and hope you feel the same way. I do my best to stay active (for the most part :) meditating, praying to God, walks with my dog, eating healthy and socializing with friends.About You...I'm most interested in being with someone who really loves their life, is extremely confident, sensual, healthy, physical and capable of intimate relationships. Kindness is also important.Someone who is self-aware/spiritual, great sense of humor without being 8 (no offense to 8 year- However....if one of your pics is you holding a fish or a rifle, then I'm probably not interested, I do appreciate the outdoorsy type, however if that is your idea of enticing a woman to date you, then I am probably not for you. Also if you have issues communicating, or challenges expressing yourself in the written form (i.e. can't spell or have poor grammar...I just want to be honest, it would annoy me in the long run as I am a writer by heart and would appreciate someone that can at least string a few sentences together :)Chemistry...Having all of the above plus a bright smile, a face that I would enjoy gazing at, and enjoy receiving warm HUGS from would be icing on the cake!I'm busy truly actively enjoying my life and building my businesses so please know I'm just NOT interested in connecting with anyone who is a casual dater or just wants to play the field.I am looking for a long term partner (or possibly a life partner) so I would appreciate someone with the same goal :)Best of luck to you otherwise! Let's keep it simple:A quiet place where we can enjoy a meal or a drink and some deep conversation. :)

  • Valerie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am not looking for a status relationship. Just would like to find someone fun to hang around and see what happens. I enjoying going to concerts or listening to a band. Being near water in the summer is a must! Surprise me

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