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Elma, 45
United States, New York, Franklin Square

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About Me

tattoos appreciated but not required!!!I have one tattoo.I am outgoing, passionate and have a slightly sarcastic, and at times, dark sense of humor.I'm looking for chemistry and friendship to start. It doesn't always lead to love and I'm ok with that. I do want to fall in love eventually. I want a long term relationship with that person that i can trust, has my back, we make each other laugh and we can't wait to see each other. I love to give and get affection.I like to do a wide variety of things, like, being on the back of a motorcycle, festivals, road trips, movies, beach restaurants, boating, hanging out, exploring...***disclaimers***If you are significantly younger than I am and think that I, as a woman over 40, are dying to have sex with you because you're in your 20s or 30s, you're mistaken. And, no matter how many ways you explain to me that you want a relationship after we have sex, I'm not falling for it and I am not interested. Maybe someone your own age would be easier to con ;) Please don't waste my time or yours. I don't lie or cheat and expect the same in return.I look like my pictures. I didn't get bigger or older ;)If I'm asking you questions and you're just answering them and not contributing anything else or asking me questions, it's not a conversation and it appears you're not interested and I will stop asking you questions. Please don't message me in a few weeks asking why we stopped talking. I like to meet first over coffee or a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Action Animation Drama War Baseball Shooting Sports
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    Looking for: man. In age: 40-56

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Single gal looking for someone to hang out with who enjoys good food and country music. I love sports and music and hanging out at home barbecuing. I really would like to find someone who likes to have a beer once in awhile (or more often) and just hang out athome with a few friends. I am by far not perfect and I have made mistakes in tbe past but I am one easy going gal who enjoys the simple life. If you think this way to then please send me a message. How about a drink and some good music on the first date and then maybe a movie on the second (that's if we get to second date, lol).

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