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Phoebe, 45

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About Me

just here checking things out...seeing who else is searching for new friends, partners, whatever. i spend my time biking, playing hockey/soccer, skiing, and hiking with my dogs. i enjoy working on/around my house. ok, i'm not good with power tools (maybe i need a teacher?) but i'm super handy in the landscaping department. i'm pretty independant so if you're looking to spend time with someone ***, that's not me. i enjoy living a simple life based on hard work and outdoor activities. i don't get off on playing games with people. i think you'll find that i'm a "what you see is what you get" kind of girl. and though i said no to the drug question i should be honest (cus honesty really is the best policy), i'm ***friendly. i know some of you lump all drugs into one catagory but i really can't compare someone that snorts oxy's on a daily basis to someone that likes to smoke an organic plant that grows in nature. so...i guess i'm just looking for cute, cool, low maintenance men to get to know and enjoy this beautiful area we live in. up for a hike or a bike ride?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Aen

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-24

    Hi! My name is Aen. I am never married islam asian woman without kids from Florida, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Tamara

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Dating at this stage of life is quite the Science Experiment. There are many variables. One variable is Chemistry. What exactly is chemistry? The definition of chemistry is " the scientific study of matter and energy and how they interact". --MATTER: Two individuals, ENERGY: What the two individuals give off. EXACTLY!!! To me, chemistry is a connection, an attraction, a bond or common feeling between two people. In my opinion, it starts very early in a friendship/relationship. Positive or negative chemistry is often one of the first feelings two people have about each other. It can be verbal or nonverbal, conscious or unconscious—yes, just like you were hit over the head with it! All the substances need to be put together or it's not going to work. Most of us know that when meeting someone for the first time can be a good experience, or a crazy experiment. You meet, talk and try to see yourself with that person well at least that is what I do. However, sometimes at the first meet, things can be awkward, so I do not always go by first impressions. I am honest and upfront and if I am not interested, I will tell you. All I ask is for the same respect in return. I'm no stranger to online dating as I’ve been on and off this site for a little over a year and have learned a lot, mostly to curb my expectations and not to take anything personally. Ok, enough of my psychological mumbo jumbo…ha!.. I will say that I am a down to earth. sweet, out-going and a people person. I love to laugh and enjoy whatever it is I am doing, good conversation and laughter is a plus!!!***there’s just one thing missing at this point…and that is sharing it with someone special. I’m on here to hopefully find that chemistry/bond with someone, someone who I can share plenty of laughs and good times with and to build something long lasting with. You meet, and if there is an attraction and good conversation, let’s see where that goes. Date, yes, actually dating and getting to know one another. I will be upfront here and say not that I am NOT looking to be anyone’s friends with benefits or a casual fling. Oh, let's not forget....I am not looking to be your pen pal either. I like to chat briefly, talk on the phone and then meet and let's see. On my down time, I enjoy working out as much as my time allows. I eat healthy and feel it is important to take care of yourself. I also enjoy going out to listen to a live music, bike riding, walks and really just about anything. My nationality is quite unique, I am Japanese and Irish and I am also 5’8- so keep that in mind. If you have a big personality, good family values and in a good place in your life, message me.....Remember..life is a gift, tomorrow is history, the future is a mystery, but today is the present..so if you feel we have some things in common, reach out.Nothing venture, nothing gained. Good luck to you all. First date, let's meet somewhere quiet over coffee, where we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Robbie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hobbies: Outdoor activities (hiking, kayaking...anything to do with water) exercise (yoga especially), the arts.Goals: Travel, try new things, enjoy life.Taste in music...everything but country.I like being around positive people who are drama free. I have no drama in my life and I am pretty much baggage free (aside from a few quirks that I consider part of my charm ;***I would prefer someone who knows what they want but really, who is that sure of themselves? I seek someone who is intelligent, honest, unique, open minded, fun, kind, and considerate. I am financially stable and in a good place, and looking for someone who is as well (not someone who is wealthy necessarily, but someone who can enjoy nice experiences, travel, and things without worry). Also, if you're a couch potato, move on. I like to be active, out and about, but I also like SOME nights at home relaxing with a glass of wine, popcorn, movies, backyard fire pit, etc). I have a life that is full of good friends, family and fun and I consider myself very lucky and blessed. I would like to have a special person in my life but I am not desperate or clingy and I will not boil your bunny (ETA: my brother read my profile and thinks I should leave the boiled bunny comment out. I disagree. If you don't know what movie that is from, then you're probably too young for me anyway...If you took it seriously, then you probably don't have my off sense of humour and just might need to lighten up a bit. If you just didn't get the reference but understood the context that I am not a psycho, then good enough). I have no children of my own but have no problems dating those who do have children. I like children and work well with them (I should, it's my job). They're good for setting the VCR and junk. Ok, I don't have a VCR, but I do depend on the kids in my life to keep me updated on technology. They teach me well :) I also understand that time may be at a premium if you have children and that they are your first priority. Remember, I am not clingy and in fact, I enjoy and value my time with friends, myself, etc. so you will get no flack from me for being a responsible, loving parent. I get it, I respect that, it's good. Let's take a hike! Or go to the art museum and let me quiz (or you can quiz me) on the art/artists/styles etc. Or, get your in-line skates and let's see if we can still do this thing!

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