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Sofia, 41

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About Me

I am looking for someone serous about a relationship, not someone says he is, then turns around every chance they get, to come on this site!!! If you continue to log in after several dates, I will assume that you are still looking and that I am waisting my time. I have said this before, and will say it again..."!!" If you are fortunate to meet with me, I believe that I should come to your house and bring a friend with me, maybe have coffee and chat, to get to know one another a little better. Ok Update!!! I went out with a guy from this site, we saw each other several time, then no phone call no text, nothing.... What is that about, I only sent one text to him saying haven't heard from you....I am not going to beg or chase anyone, I just do not understand why guys are acting so weired!!!Have you ever felt that you weren't good enough, or that someone wants to change the person you are???? Well im looking for someone who is happy with just me!!!!OK, here is what NOT to say if you wanna go out on a date... (but probably correct in his statement) "the biggest ***hole that you could ever go on a date with,i would make you pay for everything and i would treat you like sh*tany takers?" I was sent this!I am tired of these guys who are married who message me wanting me to go out with them. Look Im single, why would I want to go out with you!!! I dont care if you are telling me the truth! I am not interested in you!I want to be the one and only, I dont want to share, and if your married and want to go out with me, then you would do it to me, Im not stupid!!!! So please come on... give me a break, just let me find someone who wants me not two ...........I am a 40 year old , i work a full time job, and have one kid. I like to hang out, play pool,and get to know people. I am not on here looking for a hook up!I am a big girl and know when the games are being played,If all you want is the hunt or just a quick fix, find someone else. Hm....... well i have had many first dates all different, every person is unique and different i would not like to compare any of them...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elsie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have both driven and rode motorcycles my entire adult life and I miss it. So if you have a bike, you already have one up! (Real men know what I mean)...I want a gentleman-someone that is old school and knows how to treat a lady right. Although I do like the “good man, bad boy” theory…I can throw on jeans and a t-shirt and go casual or I can put on that little black dress and heels and feel just as comfortable. I don't sweat the small stuff. I want a man to treat me like a priority in his life and I will do the same. I am positive and upbeat. I love to laugh and experience new things. I have one son all grown up and I really don't want any more kids. Guys, if you are separated, please take care of your business before you try and date me or anyone. It's not fair to the parties involved. No new doors will open unless you close the ones to your past. And fair warning-I do not have sex outside of a committed or serious relationship, so if you are looking to get laid- just move on. i am an avid runner and i work out and eat right-I stay fit and expect no less from any man in my life. I really don't care to hear about your past relationships and baggage. We all have both, and I won't burden you with mine so I expect the same consideration. I love rock and country music, and the blues. I love to laugh and enjoy going to comedy clubs. Laughter can cure almost anything!!!!I do not date blacks. (It is what it is), nor am I attracted to a bald head. Covering it up with a ball cap isn’t fooling anyone. I am just as entitled to my likes and dislikes as you are so don't call me out on it, just move on. One last thing. A man only gets ONE chance to disrespect me. If I haven't scared you away or pissed you off, then by all means, contact me. All others just hit the "next" button and move on. Go for coffee. Or ice tea, lemonade. Always looking for good friends too! You never know where the road will lead you.

  • Clara

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I like to be physically active, hiking, biking, & going to the gym. I'm looking for someone who is active, fun, has a pretty good sense of humor, not too serious, likes to be adventoursome and spontaneous! I keep busy with my job as a flight attendant for a charter company, I also work from home in sales which makes it difficult to meet quality people.So, if you are looking for a genuine, honest, and fun person, and you are not a player, I look forward and hope to hear from you.Tami Casually meet with no expectations.

  • Elma

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    If you are only looking for sex, no need to read any further, you can move onto the next person.I am an independent self employed woman looking for someone to spend some time with, have a great conversation, go for a drink or cup of coffee. I am on a path of self improvement and self discovery. I am a BBW, but on a path of making healthier decisions (physically, mentally and spiritually). My faith is very important to me and is a big part of my life.The person who I hope contacts me will be confident, secure and open. He will enjoy conversing as well as quiet times. He will enjoy going to movie, for a walk or just sit and talk. Maybe live theatre or concert once in awhile. He will enjoy my quirky sense of humour and hopefully make me laugh too. If you sing and or play an *** would be nice but at least have a love for all types of music. My hope is that you appreciate some old fashion values such as opening doors, flowers, holding hands, maybe a cuddle or two. I would love to hear from you if you feel you would like to take a chance on friendship. Whatever we decide together. No pressure, just relaxed atmosphere. The point is to visit so wherever that can happen.

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