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Matilda, 24
United States, New Jersey, Lyndhurst

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Hey meetville. I'm new here. Just looking to see if there are some intersting "potentials" on here. It's tough to find the "connection" with someone, but the odds are better if we open up our pool of fish ;)A bit about me:My friends describe me as very kind, loving, down to earth, open (I wear my heart of my sleeve), very loyal and honest. I believe in having strong character and integrity. I work very hard and am passionate at what I do in literally all areas of my life. I love new experiences and pushing myself to new limits. It's always neat to see the joy on someone's face when they try something new and love it when they didn't think they would. I want to always strive to better myself, being more patient and in the moment as that takes practice and conscious effort. I'm a family person through and through as family is my rock. My friends as huge as well; I only surround myself with truly wonderful people and am so happy to have each one in my life. Thanks guys!I'm smart, but I'm definitely not a speller. I also have horrible hand writing/printing, I hear this a lot and I'm the first to agree haha. Something random about me: when something is really REALLY funny to me, it takes me about 5+ minutes to stop laughing because I'm replaying in my head over and over. Usually the things that make me laugh that hard are the "stupidest" things that give great mental pictures. I love love LOVE to swing and blues dance. If you don't know that is, Youtube it. It's awesome. That's my main form of exercise though I do consider myself active in other ways, but not really a gym person. Dance for me is like smiling with your whole body, so I try to do it as often as I can.Another big love of mine is traveling. I've been all over North America, Europe, Asia, Africa, and the Caribbean. I've got a few trips on the horizon this year and it's rare for me to go a year without seeing a new country. I really like seeing new things, pushing myself outside of my comfort zone and exploring new cultures. I guess that goes along side my curiosity about people and how we're all so much more alike than we appreciate. I'm very excited about my work. I am privileged to have the position that I at a great non-profit agency that supports individuals with mental illness, intellectual disabilities, and conflict with the law. We help a population that normally falls through the systems cracks and who most people would turn away from. They teach me so much about life every day, and are incredibly inspiring. I'm a manager so I am also really passionate about developing and leading others. It's a great challenge and never a dull moment. What I'm looking for in you:I'm looking for someone who can make me laugh! I think it's great when you can meet someone who brings out that playful side of you, keeping you smiling the whole time your together. I struggled with what to put down for the "intent" section because I really just want to take it as it comes, be in the moment and see what happens. We may meet once, a couple times, or develop a committed relationship; it'd be great to just let things develop naturally. I'm a happy and confident women whose looking for someone who will add even more joy to my life, but not BE my life. I want a guy that's funny, positive, fun, open minded, adventurous, not afraid to love and show love, kind, patient, smart, ambitious, and has strong integrity. You gotta be confident yet not arrogant, because that's be biggest turn off. I want someone whose not afraid to speak his mind, but is always open to listening to other perspectives as that's what creates those really great convos and intellectual debates. I love being able to spend hours talking, so it's not just all about the physical stuff. Guys who take things slow, take the lead a little, aren't afraid to challenge me if I'm wrong, and aren't just "yes dear" types are where it's at. Soooo if I sound like a match for you and you think you could be a match for me, send me a message and lets chat and see what happens. You never know what'll happen right?Cheers :) First dates can be chill, something low pressure where we can get to know each other. Having a drink at a unique little spot is nice, or going out to Assinibione park to explore, grab an ice cream or bring a soccer ball to goof off with would be great! The second date is nice when it's taken up a notch with something more experiential, fun, active, and memorable. I'm up for anything so lets have some fun and make some great memories!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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