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Nelda, 25
United States, New Jersey, Lyndhurst

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I've never filled one of these out so here I go....I love sports, pretty much of all kinds. I play softball and golf. Love to watch football, baseball, college basketball and golf. GO GREEN. (non-band wagon fan). I've been a bartender for years so I am very great at sports talk (and even know what I'm talking about) and get in on all the gambling fun and take all the boys money. :) So I guess you could say I'm competitive but not in a negative way. I love to make people laugh and I tend to surround myself with people that can make me laugh. I'm very down to earth and do not like drama. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. I'm a very passionate person. I put my heart and soul into everything I do. I love with all my heart and that will never change no matter how many people have hurt me. Nurturing and compassionate describes me pretty well, I always been known as the mom of the group. Taking care of my family and friends is at the top of my list. That includes taking care of my precious baby Bella. (My German Shepard) Trustworthy and honesty are two of my top qualities and am very proud to say that. So I expect people in my life to have those same qualities. I am very chill and will never be the type of girl to 21 question every move you make. I want the person I am with to have friends, to have an outside life and to be able to respect that I have one as well. I grew up with my older brother and my dad being my main influences since I lost my mom at such a young age, so that made me a girl that could hang with the guys and I've kinda adopted a "man's perspective" when it comes to dating. I love music. Music is a HUGE part of who I am. And I love all kinds! Religion is also a part of my life. I have been a counselor/ Dean of Christian summer camp for the last 7 years. I respect other views and everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. I don't force my beliefs on others but I do try to live my life at the best of my ability to honor my faith. I think that is a pretty good start. If you wanna know more message me. :) More creative the better. I am pretty adventurous and would love a guy that put time and effort into a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Rock Irish Portuguese Spanish Vietnamese History Thriller Archery Boxing Dirt Bike Racing
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