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Mary, 24
United States, New Jersey, Cliffside Park

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About Me

So you'd like to know a little bit about me, eh? Well for starters, I'm a pretty average chick. I'm currently in my 2nd year of teaching 7th grade Language Arts, so every day is a new adventure!In my downtime I listen to most styles of music, catch a movie, grab a drink, play board games or video games, and/or hang out with my friends. I usually always have a book attached to me, and I also enjoy writing (it's the English major in me). Also, I love humor (especially in the form of "bad jokes", as my friends call them). I'm somewhat of a sarcastic person, but I know when to be serious.So what am I looking for? To be honest, up until recently I wasn't entirely sure. I've spent the past year doing a lot of growing, and I think it's safe to say that I'm ready to find someone in the present that has potential to make it into my future. I'm not looking for someone to go on a couple of dates and assume marriage is the end result, but I'm also not wanting just another fling. I want someone I can build a foundation of friendship with that has similar interests or is open-minded enough to try new things with each other. I don't have any criteria for physical traits, but I do want someone who is confident, kind to others, and someone who enjoys being spontaneous on occasion. I've been put through the ringer with my relationships these past couple of years, so be warned now...you'll have to work hard to impress me. But I can promise you that it's worth the effort! =) While I enjoy "long walks on the beach" as much as the next girl, I really enjoy just hanging out and getting to know a person more. I think it's key to form somewhat of a friendship before moving onto that next level, and in my opinion, a lot of relationships are missing that element. Some of my favorite first dates involve that initial friend vibe. For example, I love competitive things like mini-golf, pool/billiards, or go-karts. Once we've moved past the "getting to know you stage" I'm down for dinner and movie/tv.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish South American Vietnamese Adventure Sci-Fi
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