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LilyOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I love laughter and am very attracted to people who can make me laugh. I can be very funny at times, and at other times very serious. I especially appreciate sarcastic humor. I love my dogs, my cats and my son. They are all my babies.What do I want? That's what I'm trying to figure out. Right now, I want to date and find out what is important to me in a man. After a long term, passionless relationship, I feel the need to get to know many people to figure out what is right for me. If the right man comes along, I will not turn him away, but I'm not rushing to find him. First I want to find out more about what I want.Update ***and ongoing:I have been dating and observing those traits that work for me as well as those that don't, so I thought I'd mention those traits here as a way of keeping track.I have appreciated the men who have:1) been affectionate/used terms of endearment to refer to me - I am a sucker for this2) been kind/treated me well3) expressed their attraction to me with class and/or passion4) had great senses of humor5) had a similar mindset as mine6) been direct and real with me7) helped me step outside my comfort zone8) been a friend first and a potential romantic partner second9) Bonus points to the guy who helped me look for my car for an hour when I couldn't remember where I parked it. You're awesome! (At least you were until we got to number 8 below.)I have not appreciated the following actions in the men I have gone out with:1) I did not appreciate showing up for a first date and seeing my date groping another woman; telling me I look great does not make up for this.2) I did not appreciate being stood up because my date was too drunk to show himself; no I will not reschedule.3) I did not appreciate the men (yes, plural) who have expressed their undying adoration for me but have then abruptly stopped talking to me the first time I refused to send them naked pics. Guess what. These men still don't have naked pics.4) I do not appreciate when someone says they want to go out with me, but then refuses to do so. WTF?5) I do not appreciate the date who tries to push beyond my stated physical boundaries. If I set a limit, I mean it. Oh, and I'm a black belt in karate so watch out ;***I did not appreciate the guy who chatted with me nonstop for two weeks and then stopped cold turkey with no explanation. If you decide you hate me, can you please just tell me and not make me wonder what happened?7) I did not appreciate the guy who whenever I asked him a question online, he'd give me one word answers, and then invited me to his house for the SOLE purpose of taking care of his boner. Have a personality first, people.8) I did not appreciate the guy who told me that he wanted a long term relationship just because the thought that was what I wanted to hear. Not wanting a long term relationship will not take you out of my dating pool. Being dishonest probably will, though.Please understand that with very few exceptions, I enjoyed almost every date I've been on (yes, even with the groper.) I enjoy the humor in these situations and just generally enjoy going on a date. It makes me feel alive.As I continue to date, I will continue to update this list until such time as I am ready to settle down! :)
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KerriOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'm just looking for new people to meet, love to watch my kids play sports. I like to hang out with friends and family. Just have a good time, whatever I'm doing. Dinner, drinks... Just depends
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JewelOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
PLEASE READ THIS FIRST!!!DEAL BREAKERS: Jealousy, Insecurity, Multiple DUI'S, Lack of Ambition, Chauvenistic Tendencies, Too Much Drama, Game Playing!!!A SENSE OF HUMOR IS A MUST!!! It shouldn't be so hard to find a true gentleman these days! One who is honest, drama free, trustworthy, educated, employed, and looking for a woman full of love, respect, passion, compassion, humor, integrity and the desire to do more, be more, and make that someone special her #1 priority!First and foremost, I am looking for a relationship! I am not into casual sex, friends with benefits, one night stands, or serial dating! I love a man who takes care of himself, his surroundings, has passion in his heart, respect in his upbringing and a keen sense of humor! I love to laugh so the man I am with must appreciate the southern wit I am blessed with! LOL!I take care of myself, work very hard and am pursuing a degree in Mortuary Science. I love being active, I am always well groomed but never afraid to get dirty! I am a domestic goddess in the home, a lady at the side of a good man, and I know how to take care of the man in my life mentally, physically and emotionally...so....finding someone who is physically fit and active would be nice! Do not misunderstand...it's not about being a muscle man! But it is about taking care of yourself to some degree. I have no expectations of anyone to engage in activity to the degree I do! I do it because I love it and it's important to me! If you have no interest, that's perfectly fine! My interests vary quite a bit. I love seeing a good movie, enjoying a good dinner, comedy clubs, love to travel and visit history museums and I also enjoy live music venues, mostly jazz. I am the consumate caregiver and love taking care of those in my life I care for the most. I am pretty laid back and very down to earth and love a man who possesses the same personality traits.And last but not least...COMMUNICATION IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME! Please be able and willing to communicate openly with me about anything and everything! If you are someone who has a tendency to communicate on an "occasional" basis, then I am not the person for you. I am willing and able to put forth the effort it takes to create a beautiful long-lasting relationship with the right man and that involves communication!I have met some nice gentleman on this site, I have met too many players and a couple of psychos! I am trying this again with an open mind and the hopes of connecting with someone who is seeking a descent, respectful, hard working, compassionate woman!!!