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Clarissa, 41
United States, Maine, Lewiston

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For now, I'm just looking for someone I can build a friendship with and if something develops, cool, if not, then I have at least gained a new friend. I am NOT looking for a one night stand, booty call, or hooking up with your wife/girlfriend. If you are younger than 35, we are most likely not traveling similar paths in life. I keep my baggage to a minimum and try to have the least amount of drama possible in my life. I maintain and nurture my family and close friendships so that the drama monster doesn't show its ugly head. It's nice to have expensive toys and do fun things but sharing these things with others and our time together is what I find most valuable. I truly appreciate cuddling on the couch to watch a movie, or drinking coffee someone else made for me. I can honestly say that I can't remember the last time I was "bored". I have a great job that I love as well as a side business I enjoyb as well (9 years). I'm looking for a man who has his own hobbies and friends and doesn't need a woman on his arm 24/s7. I have two young children who are my #1 priority and they require a lot of my time. However, I can make time for someone special. No, you won't be meeting my children any time soon...we can cross that bridge when we get to it. I hope you would feel the same about your own children (if you have them). I' hoping to find a fellow goofball who can totally laugh at me and himself because I will if you don't! :)I love all kinds of music....I have actually met a couple people who claim that they never listen to music. How does that happen? That is one thing I will never understand....nor do I want to. Oh, and if we should meet, can we PLEASE NOT do the "date interview"? I know it's kinda difficult to escape, and unfortunately, I don't have any bright ideas to get around it either....but, if you have bright ideas, then I definitely want to hear from you!!! Anyway, I'm done with my jibber jab for now. Would much rather hear from you! Oh yeah, one more thing....I am REAL (apparently there are "fake" women on here?)Good luck in your dating endeavors...be safe and have fun!! Im pretty open for most anything...as long as it doesn't involve heights or spiders and includes opportunity for conversation, I'm game. I would probably prefer a walk in a park as opposed to a movie or something....bowling could be fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Comedy Crime Sport Thriller Bowling
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love laughter and am very attracted to people who can make me laugh. I can be very funny at times, and at other times very serious. I especially appreciate sarcastic humor. I love my dogs, my cats and my son. They are all my babies.What do I want? That's what I'm trying to figure out. Right now, I want to date and find out what is important to me in a man. After a long term, passionless relationship, I feel the need to get to know many people to figure out what is right for me. If the right man comes along, I will not turn him away, but I'm not rushing to find him. First I want to find out more about what I want.Update ***and ongoing:I have been dating and observing those traits that work for me as well as those that don't, so I thought I'd mention those traits here as a way of keeping track.I have appreciated the men who have:1) been affectionate/used terms of endearment to refer to me - I am a sucker for this2) been kind/treated me well3) expressed their attraction to me with class and/or passion4) had great senses of humor5) had a similar mindset as mine6) been direct and real with me7) helped me step outside my comfort zone8) been a friend first and a potential romantic partner second9) Bonus points to the guy who helped me look for my car for an hour when I couldn't remember where I parked it. You're awesome! (At least you were until we got to number 8 below.)I have not appreciated the following actions in the men I have gone out with:1) I did not appreciate showing up for a first date and seeing my date groping another woman; telling me I look great does not make up for this.2) I did not appreciate being stood up because my date was too drunk to show himself; no I will not reschedule.3) I did not appreciate the men (yes, plural) who have expressed their undying adoration for me but have then abruptly stopped talking to me the first time I refused to send them naked pics. Guess what. These men still don't have naked pics.4) I do not appreciate when someone says they want to go out with me, but then refuses to do so. WTF?5) I do not appreciate the date who tries to push beyond my stated physical boundaries. If I set a limit, I mean it. Oh, and I'm a black belt in karate so watch out ;***I did not appreciate the guy who chatted with me nonstop for two weeks and then stopped cold turkey with no explanation. If you decide you hate me, can you please just tell me and not make me wonder what happened?7) I did not appreciate the guy who whenever I asked him a question online, he'd give me one word answers, and then invited me to his house for the SOLE purpose of taking care of his boner. Have a personality first, people.8) I did not appreciate the guy who told me that he wanted a long term relationship just because the thought that was what I wanted to hear. Not wanting a long term relationship will not take you out of my dating pool. Being dishonest probably will, though.Please understand that with very few exceptions, I enjoyed almost every date I've been on (yes, even with the groper.) I enjoy the humor in these situations and just generally enjoy going on a date. It makes me feel alive.As I continue to date, I will continue to update this list until such time as I am ready to settle down! :)

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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love the water...and or hanging out by a great fire pit staring at the flames. I like taking long walks, traveling anywhere,hot yoga,reading , and I would like to get better at golf. I work hard but like to have fun too. Lets go out or stay home. I like to do both. A drink and good conversation then a walk around the lake.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Some of the principles I live by: Don\'t worry be happy Be true to thine own self, Put yourself in their shoes, Do not do unto others what you would not want them do unto you. I choose people of word, reasonable, loyal to selves first of all.

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