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Phyllis, 43
United States, Maine, Lewiston

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About Me

I've been on this site before, met some great people (some not so great people), and unfortunately, not someone I wanted to spend more time with. Below is my previous profile... If it interests you, I'd love to chat and get to know you. I love fast cars (and mine is SO pretty!) ;-) Are you brave enough to take a ride with me? I only relocated from Maui in mid- Maybe you'd like to re- I am ridiculously passionate about college football and enjoy a good beer while watching the Game.- LOL... so we can agree to disagree (or get in to some fun debates) but please don't lead with "Let's talk about the Ducks" - I'd hate to delete someone who is otherwise wonderful - hahaha! :) I'm "mostly" kidding! In the interest of full disclosure: I am really not the "outdoors all the time" girl anymore. I see all these profiles with hiking, fishing, hunting and camping as a "must" (seemingly every minute of every day)... If that is you, I'm not The Girl for you! However, I am totally supportive of you enjoying these activities with "the guys' - This doesn't mean I'm afraid of nature, or even getting a little bit dirty! Just not every free moment, and with an equal balance of pampering :) And I'm not a complete prissy girl, so I am totally up for a hike somewhere gorgeous, and love walking around town or along the waterfront. And having spent the last 6 years on an island, I am ALWAYS up for the beach :) Also, I really need to start working out, so if you're not completely hard core (or at least not until I can catch up!) that is a bonus :)What about chemistry? I definitely want to get to know someone by sharing messages, but I am not looking for endless *** we meet. Let's be honest, don't we both know within the first 15 minutes if we have butterflies and want to see each other again for a "real" date" Biology is biology, and we have to have a connection. We can keep our first meeting simple, and let's hope for sparks! And before you ask, I don't give out my phone number until we are both sure we want our first "date" after we meet. And just so you know, all my pics are in the last 6 months or so. And by the way, I am not sure if it shows in any of my pictures, but I do have a small nose ring. I also have several tattoos - so if that isn't "your thing" - no hard feelings!WOW! This turned out to be WAY longer than I expected. PS: Did you really make it this far?? I'm 5'9" MOST of the time... when the day is done, and I kick off my shoes I'm only 5'5" :) I changed my profile stats since it can be shocking on a first date! (Especially if you "fudged" a little when listing your height!)PSS: Those who have read this far, and can keep the conversation going with more than just, "Hey," jump to the front of the line -

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adult Crime Documentary Family & Kids Boxing
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Worst words ever: "Nice" and "normal." If you've chosen either of these to describe yourself in your profile, we are SO not a match. just trying to save us some time here ...I’m a positive, independent, ambitious, fun-loving, irreverent, driven, ready to get out of town, anything is possible, there is no box, kind of a woman. I love, love, love my "work" - really, I never work! :) But i can do what I do from anywhere with WiFi and cell reception ... so let's GO!! I love great food, a good glass of wine, and watching spectacular sunsets from my patio. My trainer kicks my a&$ three times a week so that all the good food and wine doesn't take its toll.Looking for you if you’re confident, love your life and your work, intelligent, great conversationalist, an independent thinker who is a bit of a rebel.I value honesty, spa days, great food, laughter, skinny dipping, and original thought. I'm available for falling madly in love, fascinating conversation, passion, romance, deep friendship, hiking, cooking together, weekend getaways ... spontaneity rocks. But I'm a single mom, so sometimes I have to coordinate spontaneity with my nanny!I'm not available for routine, doing the same things over and over again, or pretending to be "normal."Still reading? ***! (I know, I'm being demanding already. Actual words requiring many keystrokes vs. Extraordinary results require extraordinary effort ...) Definitely casual ... let's meet for a drink or a cup of coffee and see where it goes. But for crying out loud, let's MEET. I'm not one for endless *** ... and by the way, that also means you need to *** don't respond to indications of interest that only require one click of the mouse and no originality whatsoever.

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