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Eleanor, 44
United States, Maine, Lewiston

Offline, last seen Thu, 01 Jan 2026 18:09:06

About Me

I'm not your average women. I am self sufficient and not looking for someone to support me. I play on a soccer teams and workout at the gym at 5:00 am every day. I'm not into game playing that is why I play soccer. What you see is what you get. I can be a girly girl but also don't mind getting my hands dirty. I'm looking for that certain guy I can connect with. I like to laugh and have a positive outlook. The man I am searching for has to have a sense of humor and the chemisty has to be there. He has to be self sufficient. I want someone I can open up a bottle of wine with and fight with who has the last piece of pizza. Someone I can cuddle up on the couch and watch scary movies with and will take my hand when I get scared and I'll take his too and won't even tell.Who I am looking for... Someone who can be committed and excited to be in a relationship. I love a man who has his own opinions and can express them in a sympathetic way. I am looking for the man who is the exception to the normal. Independent, strong, cares about his health and is physically active. I want someone who is interested in learning more about himself and me. MUST be smart. He does not have to be book smarts though. I want someone who is supportive and giving. I want someone to build the rest of my life with. I want someone who has his own interests and hobbies, and is okay with me having mine. Discovering things we can share is even better. I want someone who can identify and call me on my stuff. I want someone who loves to give and receive attention. I am very attentive. He should enjoy the simple pleasures. A little jealousy is healthy but not overboard. I want a man with dreams and ambitions of his own and be okay with me trying to help realize them. *Update to my profile*I feel a man should enhance your life not complete your life...I'm very happy where I'm at and love to laugh and have fun....it would be fun to have someone there to enjoy it with me....I have to be attracted to you and its not always about the looks...it could be something that just stands out about you...I'm just not willing to settle and I don't need to....I also like to watch football....go Cowboys..... Probably for a first date we would meet over coffee and see if there is any attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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