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LilyOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I love laughter and am very attracted to people who can make me laugh. I can be very funny at times, and at other times very serious. I especially appreciate sarcastic humor. I love my dogs, my cats and my son. They are all my babies.What do I want? That's what I'm trying to figure out. Right now, I want to date and find out what is important to me in a man. After a long term, passionless relationship, I feel the need to get to know many people to figure out what is right for me. If the right man comes along, I will not turn him away, but I'm not rushing to find him. First I want to find out more about what I want.Update ***and ongoing:I have been dating and observing those traits that work for me as well as those that don't, so I thought I'd mention those traits here as a way of keeping track.I have appreciated the men who have:1) been affectionate/used terms of endearment to refer to me - I am a sucker for this2) been kind/treated me well3) expressed their attraction to me with class and/or passion4) had great senses of humor5) had a similar mindset as mine6) been direct and real with me7) helped me step outside my comfort zone8) been a friend first and a potential romantic partner second9) Bonus points to the guy who helped me look for my car for an hour when I couldn't remember where I parked it. You're awesome! (At least you were until we got to number 8 below.)I have not appreciated the following actions in the men I have gone out with:1) I did not appreciate showing up for a first date and seeing my date groping another woman; telling me I look great does not make up for this.2) I did not appreciate being stood up because my date was too drunk to show himself; no I will not reschedule.3) I did not appreciate the men (yes, plural) who have expressed their undying adoration for me but have then abruptly stopped talking to me the first time I refused to send them naked pics. Guess what. These men still don't have naked pics.4) I do not appreciate when someone says they want to go out with me, but then refuses to do so. WTF?5) I do not appreciate the date who tries to push beyond my stated physical boundaries. If I set a limit, I mean it. Oh, and I'm a black belt in karate so watch out ;***I did not appreciate the guy who chatted with me nonstop for two weeks and then stopped cold turkey with no explanation. If you decide you hate me, can you please just tell me and not make me wonder what happened?7) I did not appreciate the guy who whenever I asked him a question online, he'd give me one word answers, and then invited me to his house for the SOLE purpose of taking care of his boner. Have a personality first, people.8) I did not appreciate the guy who told me that he wanted a long term relationship just because the thought that was what I wanted to hear. Not wanting a long term relationship will not take you out of my dating pool. Being dishonest probably will, though.Please understand that with very few exceptions, I enjoyed almost every date I've been on (yes, even with the groper.) I enjoy the humor in these situations and just generally enjoy going on a date. It makes me feel alive.As I continue to date, I will continue to update this list until such time as I am ready to settle down! :)
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AudreyOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am 44 years old & have a 18 year old daughter. I have dark blond hair, blue/green eyes, and can almost always be found with a smile on my face. I would absolutely love to find somebody that can make me laugh, but not be totally embarassing in trying to do so, enjoy my same interests, be affectionate, patient, and is good looking (sorry to be so shallow, but there's got to be physical chemistry as well). If you're looking for nothing but sex, kick rocks cause I've had enough of those offers from this website. Thanks anyways!I am looking for a serious relationship, somebody to come home to and tell how my day went. Somebody to come home to me and tell me how his day went. Somebody I can walk down the street with that will hold my hand and not be afraid to show some affection. If you're looking for a casual relationship or sexual encounter, pass me by. I'm not interested in wasting my time. I wanna be in love. The real flitter-in-ur-heart love. Anything quiet so we can get to know each other. Maybe miniature golf? A little romance doesn't hurt either. Hint, hint, guys. :+)
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MadeleineOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hi!I am a one man woman, honest, no games.. I function best in a long term relationship, but I know this takes time. I want a relationship to grow from attraction, to exclusivity and I want to savor each and every moment along the way. I am in no rush and want things to evolve naturally. I love life and I am almost always happy and optimistic, but I think a life void of that special human connection is missing something.I like to pretend that I am brave and strong and do not need a man in my life, but the truth is I do. Over the last few years, I have learned that I can be a single parent, financially independent, unfailingly clever to fix everyday problems with duct tape lol, and even put oil in my car, but to find love again I need you... I lead a full and wonderful life, love my job, but my children, family and friends can not hold me at the end of a long day and make me feel like a woman, they can not make me feel sexy and special in the way that only you can.. They can not make me feel safe and protected.. are you that man? I would like to get to know you and find out... Talk to me... I am attracted to a man that can carry on a conversation.. about music, family, work, our ideas and beliefs. Intimate conversations of desire are reserved for a little later lol.. after I get to know you a bit. First, I want to know that we have the same values, that you are a man of faith, honor, and integrity. Win my respect and you will have the key to my heart.And are you the one looking for me? I am warm, compassionate, giving, loyal, sensual, and most importantly faithful. I am hard-working, family-orientated, emotionally available, and a great communicator. I am deeply passionate about music, especially live music, it speaks to my soul and makes me feel alive! I will shyly admit country is my favorite, but I love all music I can understand and sing along too.. so no rap, techno, or head banging music lol.I am also passionate about taking pictures and making memories that last a lifetime.. family traditions are very important to me especially now that my children are older (24, 21, 19, and ***and mostly on their own. Pumpkin picking, Christmas eve with our friends, Canobie lake in the summer, and even taco night when I can get them home :)I love the water.. swimming, boating, whale watches, or going to the lake or beach and listening to the sounds, these are some of my favorite things to do in the warm weather. Weekend getaways, snuggling watching a movie, dining out (or in) are my favorite things to do anytime!Although I love the life I have created and want you to be a part of it all in time , I want to experience your world as well. I want to learn and explore your passions and interests as well as try new things together, like sailing or going on a cruise! An update to my profile.. Honestly I have never felt I was overly picky or that my standards were too high lol.. I really try to respond to all messages.. but I would like to establish some basics; For gosh sakes please be older than my children lol, Be drug, and disease free as I am, an occasional drink is ok..Have a job (not to take care of me, but to take care of yourself!.. I want something real, someone that I can see and spend time with on a regular basis.Be truly single.. not attached and looking.. and live on your own. ***kids at my house so it would be better to spend time at yours :))And most importantly if you start a conversation with .. I love your big tits.. i'm not going to respond lol***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***armed forces also to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troopsMy son is training to be a Nuclear engineer in the Navy! I think a first date is very different from a meet and greet. If after a few *** move to a phone conversation, then I would like to meet you to see if we "click" in person. Chemistry must be felt on both sides! I want to feel butterflies, and if I like you and you like me then I would LOVE to go on a first date with you.. just ask!