Bertha

• Bangor
• Maine
• United States

Online

Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

I am a single mother of two beautiful children. My daughter is 8 and my son is 4. They are my whole world, but quite sheltered from my dating life, not that there is much of one to speak of, but men that I date do NOT get introduced to my children until I feel it is time. I'm a loud mouthed, ball busting sort of woman, with a very soft heart, who's very passionate and emotional, but I don't take any shit. A little edit to this whole thing, I'm a die-hard smoker. I try to quit every once in a while, but if I do, it will be MY choice, I'm not hurting anyone but myself, and I'd rather go out happy and smokin than miserable and nervous, lol. Anyways, back to my diatribe. I denied for a long time that I was country, but I won't lie, I have a lot of good southern values, with a bit of a rocker/hippie/poet twist to it. I'm a traditional woman in that I want a home, a husband, and to care for my children. I was raised to care for my man in all the ways most women today don't. I'm not on here looking for sex, or someone to simply hang out with. I've plenty of friends to do such things with. I'm looking for someone intelligent, kind, well read, and most of all, decent. I don't want anyone who has no idea what they are looking for, such confusion has no place in my life. I have a direction in my life, and I'm fighting hard to get there. Music is a huge part of my life, it frees my soul and calms me on a bad day. I have an ipod in my head and it's always on shuffle. Everything reminds me of a song, not that I sing at the wrong moments or anything, lol. I'm young, but don't count me out, I have a very old and (sometimes) wise soul. I crave a depth in a man that I've yet to find, but when I do, I will hang onto it and not let go. I'm also a writer, I get asked a lot on this site what my hobbies are, and being a full time mommy doesn't let me have many, but writing and singing are huge for me. I listen to all types of music, mainly being country and blues. I sing, so it's got to have a melody for me to sing to, or I'm not happy with it. I think I may stop rambling now, but I will say this, if you've gotten to the end of this, and you think that I'm some rambling, demanding person, you'd probably be right. I'm a talker to the end, and I'm a complete open book. I'm never boring, never not wanting to talk, always asking why, and tenacious as they come. Anyone that gets with me would have to be okay with that and a ton more, so if you think you're man enough to handle me, go ahead and message me. I'll respond. I'd like a nice dinner, a nice wine, and excellent conversation.

Cathy

• Bangor
• Maine
• United States

Online

Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

I'm new to the area and dont know many people. In my free time I like to travel and explore. Looking for a good sidekick. If you wanna know more message me and we can chat.

Tara

• Bangor
• Maine
• United States

Online

Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

I love to read alot of books. I also work alot and love my cat. I want to go back to school for grafic art. I love all forms of romance and am tired of the dinner/movie kind of dates. I want to find someone creative as I am. I am a free spirit and dont like a ton of planning. Someone who can suggest fun things or ask me about things *** "i dont know, you pick" all the time. Learn to have a conversation! I also like a guy that is into fitness. But i love many things, so suprise me! As for music i like everything but tecno and pop. I love to go see music live and to try new things.As for the kind of man i am looking for:Must be looking for a relationship, if your looking for just sex dont even botherMust have some form of income and not live with mommy anymoreAge doesnt matter to me at allI would like a buff man, tired of dateing supper skinny guys. Prefer non-military or close to finished.Family is very important to me. Must not be the kind that always wants me choose the topic or the date. have your own idea'sMust be respectfull of me and my family, they are more important than you for nowMust be romantic!!! For a first date I would choose something like the aquarium or a theam park. Something fun and different than the norm.