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KariOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
This is the part where the wonderful description of ourselves goes hmmm? It is a somewhat daunting task to describe oneself. So here it goes, some random things about me: At my best I am spirited, curious, and diverse, at my worst stubborn and I talk too much. I try to be a better me everyday, physically, and mentally. I am very straightforward and take things as they come to me. If you ask me my opinion, I will tell you, tactfully of course, and it will be exactly that, my opinion. Feel free to disagree. I am a self described glass is half full girl. Honesty is of great importance to me. So is laughter. I don't gossip, it's unkind. I keep confidences because it is important to be trustworthy. The best compliment I ever received was that I am compassionate. The best advice ever given to me was "we regret in life more the things we don't do than the things we do". I am a people person. I love kids and old people (I know that sounds hokey, but I do!) They usually have an interesting take on things. I am inspired by nature and the outdoors. I am learning to fish because my children love fishing. Last year I learned to shoot and loved it! I am also rather bookish, reading and writing are my escape. I love movies, music, and theater. I speak fluent German. I like early mornings as much as late nights. My favorite movie is "It's a wonderful life". My current favorite song is "Sometimes I get a feeling" by Flo Rida. I will dance, although it is usually in my kitchen while cleaning. I am not a huge sports buff but will hang around for the occaisional sporting event, I am artistic and inventive and love gardening and have been know to bouts of baking a bit compulsively. Yea, there's more but if you got this far and you're still reading and curious you'll have to ask, otherwise it'd be just as well to simply publish my autobiography in this here small box for your reading pleasure and just skip the whole dating thing. :)Addendum: I am flattered by the many responses I have gotten in my first 2 days here. I don't know if it because I am brand new and it will begin to drop off after a bit, however I do try to respond to most even if I am not interested. Please don't be offended, I have spent time thinking and have a pretty good idea of what I want in someone I will choose to spend time with. Days may be long, but life is short and I see no point in wasting anyone's time. I have a few criteria that are general reasons I will not date someone- If you are closer to my kids age than mine, thank you for stopping by, as a general rule I prefer to date a bit older, next you don't have to be a rocket scientist but you have to know something about something, be able to write an intelligable note (perfection is not necessary) and hold a conversation, one that goes back and forth, don't expect me to do all the work, I am a woman that wants to be wooed, (yes, I am so worth it), I have many interests, hopefully so do you so we will have plenty to talk about and you should like to do something I do or vice versa, SO, if you have nothing to say please go to the library (is that harsh? I hope not it's just that is the appropriate place to be quiet, not on a date ) Next I want to be able to see your face, your stuff is nice, so is your dog and your home is beautiful, I know those pictures are meant to say things about you, but the picture of you should show your face clearly and should be recent, and oh yes you look great in your sunglasses but I want to see your eyes. As a sidenote, smile! You are here to find a date not get a part in the next serious guy movie. PS. Sports are ok, like I said I will watch on occasion, but if you're into sports and only sports I am not you gal either. Sports is what I see as a great excuse for you to have your time and me to have mine but I prefer not to spend a date that way. Lastly I am a 42 year old woman, with a real 42 year old woman's body. I have had 2 children so let's be real. I have curves, some in the right places and some not so much. I will not ask you if I look fat in this outfit, I am generally pretty comfortable in my own skin, but if physical perfection is important to you then you need to hop off the bus gus. Oh yea, and anything too forward or freaky fetish stuff should be saved. Sex is important in relationships, note: in relationships, not in a weird first hi I'm so-n-so note. Thank you for you patience, please carry on4 month Update: I no longer try to respond to most, it's too much to do, I am a busy girl. It gets exhausting to keep explaining things over and over. Convincing someone, no, really you're not my type. Sorry. Not trying to be mean...so If I don't respond you haven't caught my intrest or you don't meet the criteria. It is hard to reject someone, no one wants to do that. So yea, sometimes it is easier to say nothing. Some of you write the nicest things too, which makes it even harder. But that is just how it is, sometimes we just don't feel it. So if I don't respond, thank you for your note, I am always flattered. This is not an easy way to meet someone, feels unnatural and backwards. Also if you ask for my number and I give it to you, call me, don't text me. If the phone conversation goes ok then maybe we can text. Finally, I do this all on my phone so I cannot do the online chat thing, so don't be offended when I don't respond. ;) This first date box is kinda silly, because we all just want to look at a person face to face, see if they are still attractive (do they really look like the picture that attracted you) find out if there is mutual chemistry and does this individual have anything of interest to contribute or is sitting with them a tortuous strained affair. It's anyone's guess folks, this is afterall internet dating...so whatever it takes to relax and be yourself
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FloraOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Hi :)I'm looking for someone who is serious about wanting to be in a committed relationship. I want someone who can't wait to wrap their arms around me and make me forget about all the stress of the day. Someone smart, funny, strong sex drive, stable in their life but flexible enough to accommodate me and my kids...yes, I have kids. I'm looking for someone who's romantic but still very much a man.A little about me...I'm not really a warm weather girl, I prefer the spring or the fall and definitely would pick shoveling snow to 100°+ weather. I'm not high maintenance but that doesn't mean I don't like pretty things or like to look pretty. I'm a laid back kinda girl and am up for just about anything you'd like to do. I do have 3 children, two of which still live at home and I co-parent with their father. So that means that I have them 50% of the time. I am currently on a mission to make healthier choices in my life, whether it be food choices or physical activity so that can feel good about being a good role model to my children. I will try to add more here as I think of things but in the meantime, send me a message...I'm a open book and who knows we may just hit it off. Oh ya, I forgot the most important thing that I want in a man...honesty.Amy :)P.S. Please don't message me if you don't have a photo on here. I have pics so you can see what I look like, it's only fair that you do the same and please don't offer to text or *** me. I don't and won't give out that information until I've gotten to know you a lot better, here. Surprise me!! But you should probably know that I am afraid of heights...just a little heads up. :)
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KatinaOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
A bit shy, a bit more sarcastic, loyal, honest, trustworthy, straightforward, kind...I sound like I'm describing a puppy....but I am cuddly, too, so it works! :) An outdoorsy, country girl, born and raised...the country song Canadian Girl describes me to a tee. I'm a huge sports fan, playing and watching. Play softball, volleyball, golf and even darts, I'm pretty good, too!! Oh and Hockey Rules...'nuff said! Go Sens Go!!The Nitty Gritty: a jeans and t-shirt kinda girl but I clean up pretty nicely. I adore flip flops; am addicted to coffee!!!!!! I have a tattoo or two...ok 4 but all respectable (my dad would kill me other wise!). I eat healthy for the most part and love to stay active, but beer and wings on game night are good, too. I'm a fan of all music, yes, even country. I love being out in a social setting but a quiet night at home cuddled on the couch watching a movie or listening to music can be sweet perfection in it's own way. I've gone back to school to try to catch up with the times after 12 years with the same company so things are pretty busy...I should've studied this hard in high school...who knows where I'd be now! lol I don't hate being single, I quite like me, but having someone to share in the above passions makes them so much sweeter and maybe you could introduce me to new things I'd never thought of trying. Could that be you? Perhaps? About you: Honest, Straighforward, Patient, Respectful, a little bit Naughty Bad Boy but comfortable being sensitive, too. If any of this interests you, feel free to send me a message! If not, Happy Fishing and Good Luck!"Never settle for anything less than butterflies" A quick coffee to see if there's an initial attraction.A less quick drink at a pub for the same reason!