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Please, no religious fanatics...go save someone else! I am a former Marine, so I like the outdoors and I am not afraid to get dirty. Not to worry, I like being a girl and I can't bench press more than you. I'm really not interested in dating someone with young kids.....I love kids but my son is 18 so I'm past the young kid stage in my life. I like to laugh and joke and can have fun staying in or going out, that does not matter. I am not high maintenance, prissy or phony. If things work out and we are compatible, I will spoil you and take care of you! Just thought I'd let you know I am not looking to be your mom, you already have one. Not looking to be your sugar mamma either, you must have a full time job. Do not contact me if you are a player and just looking to get laid. Must like dogs, I have one (lab mix) who likes to give kisses so don't make me choose because the dog will win every time! Yes, the dog sleeps in my bed (he was there before you). I'm allergic to cats. Don't tell me things you think I want to hear if you do not mean them (no false advertising please). If you are clingy, emotionally needy, not over your ex, are a drunk, control freak, paranoid, have self esteem issues, do not trust women and are so desperate to find someone that being with the wrong person is better than being by yourself I do not want to hear from you. I didn't break you and I have no desire to fix you. I am not looking for someone who is perfect because no one is perfect including me but I don't want to be with someone who can't be honest with who he is. Honesty, sense of humor, confidence...those are a good start. If you are a high maintenance, prissy man who is afraid to get his hands dirty and is a male bimbo then move on.....I will get bored with you and don't have the time to help you sound out the big words. If you read my profile and don't like it I don't care and don't want to receive an *** saying how much you don't like it, If you have on a baseball cap and/or sunglasses in every picture don't *** you're under 5'8" please don't ***, even though I'm petite, I like taller guys. Please don't lie about your height...if we meet and it's obvious you lied about your height I'll just leave because you just wasted my time. Sorry, not into guys with long hair, ponytails and such. The first date is really like an interview....so, coffee and a bagel or we could meet for drinks and appetizers. I will pay for myself...not looking to get a free meal. If the interview goes well, you can pay for me on the first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mable

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ~~Real gentlemen who know how to treat a lady...like you would want your daughter or your mother to be treated, please step up and continue reading. If you're on some childish high school mess....PLEASE...Kindly excuse yaself and keep it moving~~ I am a woman who is about my business and handles my business and expect nothing less from you.Now...with that being said....I'm a pretty cool, down to earth Lady, who truly believes in enjoying the simple things in life that some of us so often overlook. It takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile ;o)Everyone has a bad day sometimes & we all have drama....so, to say I don't "do" drama is not reality. It's how U "handle" conflict and give the resolution that determines the outcome to a situation. I don't like "unnecessary" drama.I'm a positive person and choose to surround myself with the same. Some of us tend to place the burden of our happiness upon someone else...when it is up to our own individual self to create our own happiness. "Looking to Enhance My Happiness" and find a best friend/road dog/partner in crime to laugh with and enjoy life...meaning, u don't give up on each other when things get tough.~~Reward offered~~: To 1 humorous,handsome,intelligent(book smart,commonsense,streetwise) fun loving gentleman who can get me off this dating site!!!!!!~~Not focused on this chapter....just the happily ever after...Don't want to be the wifey, Want to be the "Lifey"P.S. I HAVE A PEACE OF MIND IN MY LIFE....and I truly value this!!! Please don't try to come at me with some mess!! Thank UIF YOU HAVE NOT DEALT WITH ISSUES FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS, YOU ARE MARRIED, OR LIVING WITH/INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE...PLEASE PLEASE KEEP IT MOVING. I am looking for something real and I give what I get..****Just had to add an extra note in here....for all you crazy,hate filled, redneck country bumpkins(and I am a southern girl to the bone...born n bred)........go "squeal like a pig" somewhere else and refrain from messaging me. I like men of all shades,sizes and age....I don't discriminate****** Hit your back button(that's the arrow at the top) and keep it moving!!!!!I'M NOT GIVING UP...SOMEHOW,SOMEWAY,SOMEDAY....Til then ;o) CAN YOU KEEP MY ATTENTION....."Originality,Personality,Vitality"Save a movie for a rainy day when we've already had a first date!!!Cold beer and catch a game...that def wins cool points!!Great conversation and personality...PLEASE bring that with U

  • Andrea

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First I would like to say thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Second I would like to say, without sounding too harsh, that I am not looking for a long distance relationship here so if you live more than an hour from me and you don't have recent pictures posted then please don't message me I'm not your match.Now about me I am a single mother of three wonderful kids 16, 19 & 20. They are the most important and precious things in my life.’s work, snowmobiling, a snowball fight, making snow angels, boating, fishing, motorcycle rides, campfires and spending time with family and friends. So you see there really isn’t much that I don’t enjoy indoors or out and if I haven’t listed it, it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t do it or at least try it . When in a relationship I love to show affection and enjoy receiving it and honesty and trust are huge to me. I like country music, I don't like animals in the house and I have 5 tattoo's...nothing crazy I promise. Again, I am not looking for a long distance relationship here so if you live more than an hour from me and you don't have recent pictures posted then please don't message me. I don't mean to sound harsh in any way but I am truly looking for a relationship. So that’s me in a nut shell. If you want to know more just ask! First dates are tough. I think it all depends on the two meeting. If you both like coffee then a cup of coffee and some conversation or if wine is your thing then a glass of wine in a corner booth would work too. The first date should be a comfortable time for both

  • Dominique

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love life and try to live each day to the fullest. I love to laugh and spend time with family and friends. You will catch me after church on Sundays during football season glued to the TV watching the Titans play.I can't live without my Faith, family, friends, football, Diet Dr Pepper and chocolate.I love country music, riding bikes, playing tennis, reading, the beach, hot water, my convertible, and the color purple!My profile says my body type is average. It gave me an option for thin but I'm definitely not thin, an option for athletic, nope that's not really me either, all though I like to work out just not by myself. It also gave me an option for a few extra pounds, I mean come on, don't most people have a few extra pounds they want to lose or even gain. And then it gave me an option for Big & Tall/BBW. Really? What does BBW mean anyway? And at 5'***, yes I put that 1/2" in there, I am definitely not Big & Tall. So that left me with the choice of average. So I guess you could say I lied to you. I am by no means an average body type. I don't think I would like to be in that category anyway because I'm happy (for the most part except those few extra pounds lol) with my body. So I will just leave it at I am very curvy. Did that scare you away? Well, it should have. ;)One fact about me...,.I don't need a man. Now, let me explain that. I have never been married so I have pretty much been on my own most of my life. Yes, I have dated but I have never lived with anyone. So that means I'm very independent. I own my house (and have for the last 15 years), I have a great car, a wonderful job that I love and I think I have a good head on my shoulders. I don't have any debt or baggage. I'm not into drama and not looking for any drama. I don't fight, disagree maybe, but that's it. We are all adults so let's talk about what's wrong, kiss and make up because that's the fun part ;) and then move on. Life is too short to dwell on the little stuff. I don't hold grudges and I hate to clean. So back to my original point. I don't need a man because I can definitely take care of myself. However, I WANT a man. I want to love and feel loved. I want to spoil my man and be spoiled by him. I want to wake up everyday anticipating a new day with him. I don't want to take him for granted and I want to encourage him to be the man he wants to be. I want to be his best friend and for him to know that he is special and I only have eyes for him. I want him to know that when he looks at me across a room, that I get goosebumps just from that look. And that when I wake up, I can't wait to finally see him again, to talk to him, to touch him, and to just be with him.'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all....TennysonP.S. Guys we don't want to see just one picture taken years ago. We don't want to see pictures of your dog or car. We want to see pictures of you. It is not all about physical appearances but let's be honest, there has to be some kind of attraction on both parts to continue communication. Anywhere we can talk and get to know each other better to see if we want to continue talking.

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