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Carey, 41

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About Me

Okay so trying a new profile... I am not your typical woman or rather not what you would typically find on a site such as this. I married young and was married a very long time. I am not exactly sure what I am looking for by joining a site such as this. I do know what I am not looking for. I am totally not interested in sex. That is not to say I do not like sex or that I am anti sex.. lol... it is just to say that if I man wants to have sex with me.. he has to pass a few goals before getting there lol. I believe if faithfulness within a relationship and believe in honesty. In my opinion.. communication is the most important key to any relationship. If you have issues with communicating.. please do not contact me. I have been down that road and refuse to be there again.Family is very important to me. I have two teenage children. They do live with me and sorry but they do come first in my life. If I were to ever meet a man that I felt was Mr. Right, I do understand the roles family would take in that situation. I am a Christian. God is very important to me. I can honestly say that I would never have made it through all I have survived had it not been for God. No man will ever come between me and my relationship with God. I enjoy a variety of activities. I feel I am a very open minded individual as long as it stays within normal morals and values range. Bottom line.. I know without a shadow of a doubt I would make a good match with a person who truely wants a relationship with a woman who understands and values a relationship. I would not match with anyone looking to be a player. I am hoping by changing my profile I will eliminate some of the individuals who have a let's say more sexual desire on this site. While I do enjoy sex.... I am saving myself for that special guy who will actually take the time to get to know me. First date... would depend on who I am with and where meeting him. If on this site.. would never go for anything other than a public meeting. On that note... do not expect to text me and then meet immediately... I kind of value me... and I want to be as safe about this as possible. The Internet is not the safest way for a female to meet people. However, I do want to say... I would not allow a man to pay for a date with me... expectations seem to stem from that and I refuse to feel obligated to anyone. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tamera

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Please, no religious fanatics...go save someone else! I am a former Marine, so I like the outdoors and I am not afraid to get dirty. Not to worry, I like being a girl and I can't bench press more than you. I'm really not interested in dating someone with young kids.....I love kids but my son is 18 so I'm past the young kid stage in my life. I like to laugh and joke and can have fun staying in or going out, that does not matter. I am not high maintenance, prissy or phony. If things work out and we are compatible, I will spoil you and take care of you! Just thought I'd let you know I am not looking to be your mom, you already have one. Not looking to be your sugar mamma either, you must have a full time job. Do not contact me if you are a player and just looking to get laid. Must like dogs, I have one (lab mix) who likes to give kisses so don't make me choose because the dog will win every time! Yes, the dog sleeps in my bed (he was there before you). I'm allergic to cats. Don't tell me things you think I want to hear if you do not mean them (no false advertising please). If you are clingy, emotionally needy, not over your ex, are a drunk, control freak, paranoid, have self esteem issues, do not trust women and are so desperate to find someone that being with the wrong person is better than being by yourself I do not want to hear from you. I didn't break you and I have no desire to fix you. I am not looking for someone who is perfect because no one is perfect including me but I don't want to be with someone who can't be honest with who he is. Honesty, sense of humor, confidence...those are a good start. If you are a high maintenance, prissy man who is afraid to get his hands dirty and is a male bimbo then move on.....I will get bored with you and don't have the time to help you sound out the big words. If you read my profile and don't like it I don't care and don't want to receive an *** saying how much you don't like it, If you have on a baseball cap and/or sunglasses in every picture don't *** you're under 5'8" please don't ***, even though I'm petite, I like taller guys. Please don't lie about your height...if we meet and it's obvious you lied about your height I'll just leave because you just wasted my time. Sorry, not into guys with long hair, ponytails and such. The first date is really like an interview....so, coffee and a bagel or we could meet for drinks and appetizers. I will pay for myself...not looking to get a free meal. If the interview goes well, you can pay for me on the first date.

  • Sonya

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am looking for someone that is honest first and foremost! I am a romantic at heart and very loyal to my partner. I am a single mom and my daughter comes first. she is awesome and I am very proud of her! I want to find someone that likes to be silly and not take life toooo seriouslly. I love to be outside over being inside......mountains over the ocean........and green beans over spinach! I am open to just about anything......dinner, drinks, dancing, sporting event, or live music.

  • Carla

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am pretty easy going and love to joke around and laugh. I know most of my pics im being silly but i do know how to be serious and i am a very responsible person. Life is too short not to enjoy. I enjoy summer time and being outside doing just about anything. I have two great kids one of which is an adult and the other almost there so I find I have much more free time so let's chat!!! Have a great day!!

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