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Sandy, 41
United States, Massachusetts, Randolph

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About Me

I am a single, nearly-divorced, woman with meat on her bones, a smile in her heart, and laughter on her mind. I love exploring new places, restaurants, and stories. When my nose isn't stuck in a book, my eyes could be glued to a cheesy reality show or a moving documentary. I love to cook and entertain and turn regular spaces into beautiful places to relax, connect, and enjoy friends and family.I love to write, travel and share funny, embarrassing, frustrating, joyous moments with people I love. My goals in life are to see as much of the world as I can, make meaningful connections with people who bring joy to my life and to some day have a wonderful family that expands my patience, compassion and capacity for love. I have a soft spot for southern men. Southern is not a prerequisite, but respectful is. I love a man who can make me laugh, a man whose actions and words are the same, a man who is kind, and a man who has established a life of his own. If he likes to travel, try new restaurants, spend the day driving to a new place, sit on the couch and cuddle on a rainy night, and can kiss me until my toes curl--then he's right for me.If you like to be surprised, held and told how much you are appreciated and loved, and you can reciprocate, you are a prime target for my passion. If you only say "I love you" when you really mean it, are looking to date and see what happens from there, then we might be a good fit.PLEASE NOTE: Please do not contact me if you're looking for cyber sex, phone sex, a one night stand, or financial support of any kind. The place isn't as important as the conversation. While a setting can enhance a mood, if a man can make me laugh, help carry the conversation, show interest in me, and keep a positive attitude, then it's a great first date. I love to be outside in nice weather so anything by the beach or at an outdoor cafe would be ideal, but the most important thing is the conversation and the level of attraction and engagement.NOTE: It will not be at my house for "cuddling."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Single mom of two beautiful children. I have 10 tattoos so you have to like a woman with tats. Not into drama or bullsh*tso don't waste my time if your not looking for something serious. I'm a great woman looking for a great man who's loving,caring,loyal,affectionate,honest,funny,and faithful. And please if your not gonna be respectful when you leave a message then don't bother leaving one cuz you'll just get blocked. I'm tired of scumbags leaving disgusting and disrespectful messages. If your a man then act like one..not like a perverted pig who is only on here looking to get laid. Best of luck to all and have a pleasant day :-) I apologize if it seems like I'm coming off too strong but if you lived a day in my shoes you'd understand why I wrote what I wrote.... Somewhere public but quiet so we can hear each other during our conversation.

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    FYI: I do not date outside my race.Hey there! My hearts been broken more times in the year and a half I've been on this site than it has my entire life. One of the most important things that makes up a strong, successful relationship is honesty and this site does not have an ounce of it..........It's this simple guys......I want a RELATIONSHIP that's fun, exciting, adventurous, trusting, honest, fulfilling, full of laughter and smiles and eventually love. About me......I'm a strong, confident, independent, self-sufficient and educated woman., and I love it. I'm very dedicated and loyal to my job(as I am in my personal life), and I work as much as they need me to. I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls, 23 and 17. They no longer live at home, but they remain my life, my world, and my everything. They will ALWAYS come before anyone or anything. My motto is "I don't NEED a man......I WANT a man." When I have free time, I enjoy all the typical outdoor things......beaches, mtns, hiking, camping, fishing, canoeing, walking and amusement parks. I am committed to my weight loss so I try to walk everyday and I enjoy my P90X workouts. I have lost ~55lbs so far....looking to lose about 30 more. My one true passion in life is troubled children. I am very liberal so I believe in helping children grow into who they are not controlling them like their possessions. We don't accept being controlled so why should they have to. My dream one day is to be their support and their voice when adults won't listen.What kind of man can tickle my fancy.........Your not afraid to exploreYour open minded, out-going, adventurous, FUN and satisfyingMost importantly.....your not one sided Your confident and don't feel the need to control the relationshipYour compassionate, considerate and caringYour supportive, sensitive and unselfishA few things to remember before you message me.......Say what you mean and mean what you sayDon't come on strong if you don't want it in returnTreat me with the same respect you demand.......if you don't demand respect, don't message meSex and Nude Pics are things you earn.......your not entitled toDon't push your way into my world......I will let you in when I'm readyIf your a male chauvinistic pig.....don't message me. I have no time for archaic ways of lifeI am looking for what everyone ultimately wants.....love, friendship, companionship, happiness and laughter. I'm just not chasing it anymore. If you are looking for a woman like me and are seeking a long term relationship, let's talk and see what happens.I won't be any mans half-time, down-time, spare-time or sometimes. So don't waste my time."

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