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Brenda, 40

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About Me

About me...Single again after many years of marriage. I have 2 kids that live at home with me. 15 and 11 and an older one in college.I am in school again and loving it. I am a very determined hardworking optimist. I love life and believe laughter is the best medicine. I own my own home (just built it in May) and cars. I am organized and responsible. I am working on my degree so for now school is my only job. I run 3- I would not label myself a smoker.I like to go out, try new things and have fun, but I am not a partier and do not do drugs. Most weekend nights I can be found watching movies or attending football games with my kids. I am very serious about school so I spend a lot of time focused on it.I am honest,(my pics are current and not of my sister or photo shopped) caring and considerate. I take my responsibility to my kids very seriously. I cook and keep my home very clean. I cut my own grass and do all of my own yard work. I am not looking for someone to take care of me. I have perfect credit and know how to manage my finances. Basically I have my sh*ttogether. Having said that I am an extremely friendly and social person who can have fun anywhere. I'm always up for an adventure and am lots of fun.I am looking for someone who has it together and is also lots of fun.I welcome someone with children as I am very family oriented and love being around kids.Please do not contact me if you... Still live with your parents or rent from them. (same thing)Are bankrupt, unemployed, or brokeHave lots of ex wife/ baby mama dramaDo drugs or drink heavilyHave a criminal recordHave no ambitionAre uptight and super religiousExpect me to by your dinner or loan you money Don't know how to treat a ladyAre just looking for a sexual encounterLooking forward to meeting you :) coffee...lunch....dinner...drinks...a walk in the park...football game???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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