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Althea, 36
United States, Massachusetts, Hyannis

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Ages ***only!Ok guys! I love getting messages and all the attention, but there is to many to make a choice. Please write me and tell me how our life would be together if we settled down in the next 3 years. This is my purpose on here. I'm here to find my life partner. Not to hook up. Thanks! I like tall thin to average men. ***poundsSeriously!!!! I feel no chemistry with larger men. I'm not trying to offend anyone. (Please don't ask me for a date if you prefer thin to average women! I'm a voluptuous female and am staying that way.)Kids come first! Always and forever!!!If you are here to "hang out" or for "nothing serious" please don't waste your time or mine because as my profile says, I am looking for a long term relationship with lots of dating and hanging out. Just because I am on meetville doesn't mean I am desperate. I am far from that. I don't frequent bars and clubs nor post ads on Craigslist so where else, but the Internet is there to meet people? I stay home on a Friday night rather than go out with the wrong guy. I'm in no rush because I want to get it right this time around and grow old with my lover in life. Plus I do not wish to waste my time or body on the wrong guy!ONLY CONTACT ME IF YOU UNDERSTAND AND AGREE WITH THE FOLLOWING!!! 1. You are NOT looking for ONLY sex!!!! 2. You have a DECENT paying job so you can afford to DATE and have a family one day. I am far from materialistic. I don't care what car you have, where you live, or what expensive toys you own. Just pay all your bills and have a little fun money to spare. I prefer to spend my money on my kids and family. I am a giver. I'm a natural Nurturer. I like to take care of people. I just don't want to date anyone without a job and ambition. 3. I have kids at home ages 10 and 4 and a life so don't get mad if I can't drop everything to meet you. I will never meet you because you already are showing your mental issues! I will meet within two weeks. I will only meet you if I like you physically. Please do the same! Because what's the point otherwise! Don't SETTLE!!!!4. I am not looking to marry anyone, male or female (yes it had to be said) in the next year or even three!!!!!My goal here is to meet that special someone who I click with physically and mentally. I have personal goals to accomplish before moving in with anyone. I want to give my best to my future.5. Physically you must like Boobs and Ass to be with me. I like mine ( and so do many men and women) . My physical traits will always be with me. Maybe a bit smaller because of my own personal goals, but not because of anyone else. Also I enjoy a well endowed man ***inches).Why do men who like thick go for thin?? (Society, I am sure), and men who like thin women pick thick women? (I am sure they are settling. It only makes SEX SUCK EITHER WAY. I am use to great sex. My next relationship will not be any different than my last one of 13 years. Sex was NEVER the issue. I am seeking to date a like minded, social person. I do not like clubbing every weekend. Maybe once a month MAX. Museum anyone? Movies at home are way better than the theater. Germs are all over those seats!!! Eventually I hope to meet my partner in life where we can grow old together on our ranch where we grow and raise or own food. And love our grandkids. God is #1 in my life yet I am not a bible thumper. I do wish I would attend church more. Guess what, Jesus loves me anyway!! My match must enjoy people and want to attend social functions. I am a people person and love people so a jealous guy won't work. (Bingo, my last LTR's problem.) Been there, done that and it makes having friends very difficult. Why can't a guy appreciate that his Lady is attractive enough to get looks? I am faithful to who I am with. I believe that you must have trust and communication in any relationship for it to work with happiness. A positive outlook and a love for God is important. And LOVE kids. Crazy ones because they all are!!! LOLNo disrespect intended- Mexican men- our interests do not match. I am social! And most are cheaters in my own experience.Please don't get offended. Negativity doesn't help anything. (FYI ***My daughter is half Mexican. I was with her father for 5 years.) Yes I am overweight/ curvy/ fat/ extra few pounds/ BBW- call it what you like. BUT I prefer fit men. Don't lie!!! Sex is a major part of my life (when I am with someone in a long term relationship) so attraction is a must on both parties. And in a relationship sex 3x++ a week is healthy. (FYI Sex with me won't happen quickly, but I am worth the wait.)Ages ***Only!!! I like older men! If you are a honest, giving, loving, groomed, CLEAN man who loves having people around, then message me. (NO alcoholics, drug addicts (more than ***on occasion), and physical abusers). And if you don't wash your hands after you pee, before you eat, etc, either start or don't contact me. GROSS! lolThanks for checking out my profile. I promise I am NOT a B. I just have expectations just as you should. The first meeting with be hands off! Unless you sense I want you to kiss me. You will know I promise! ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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