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Erma, 39
United States, Massachusetts, Hyannis

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Jun 2026 17:59:39

About Me

I am a very outgoing, open, honest, hardworking family girl. I have a 2 year old boy that is with me full time, so you must be open to that.I love to tailgate during football seasonI like to golf (especially with my dad...he let's me use my foot wedge and mulligans over and over...lol)I am very close with my family and looking for a man who is close to his as wellI'm looking for my equal, not someone I have to give therapy to, babysit, be a maid to, and be an ATM machine for...been there, done that. (Yes, thats something Im working on, my choices in men).I prefer a tall man since I am 5'8 and still like to wear heels on occasion. * I have had to add this and its not to be mean... Tall man to me isn't 5'6". I'm 5'10 at max with heels. I don't want to bend down to hug you. It's just not my preference. I'm looking for someone with a good sense of humor, seeing how I can be a bit of a clown. What you see is what you get. I know what I want and just when I think I have found a great guy, the gremlins come out of the closet. I need to get better at trusting my gut and seeing the red flags waving in front of my face. I may have to have a panel of judges for the next victim, until I learn how to pick em..lolI want a man who has his act together, his head screwed on straight and all the monkeys off his back (although they are cute) I dont have time for anything else.I treat a man how I would want to be treated and I expect the same in return. I will settle for nothing less.There is nothing sexier than a well dressed and educated man. ( I understand not all men have the dressing thing down pat. Its not a deal breaker, but will need do some on the job teaching). I still have to help my dad out most of the time. Speaking of my dad, I am looking for all the same qualities he displays everyday. (He does whatever my mom says, asks how high to jump and hands over the wallet on command...lol) Only joking! My parents are still together after 40 plus years. These days, that is hard to find.I can go on and on, but thats a start. Im a pretty open book. If you have any questions...just ask :)PS. If you don't have a photo posted, I will not respond...only fair. It's also ok to smile in your photo... Some people look like they posted their line up photo at the local cop shop.I have received many *** people who cannot formulate a sentence. Just so you know, if I have to get a translator to read your ***, I'm not impressed. If your in a towel and half naked ( usually while flexing your biceps) your probably not the right one for me. meetville wont let me say it :) Some things should be left for the imagination and reserved just for the one your with. If your status says your not looking for a commitment or relationship, we aren't on the same page. Honesty is my best policy. If you have gotten this far, thank you for taking the time to read about what I am looking for.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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