Total users: 61,628,332 Online users: 221,908
Arlene, 40
United States, Massachusetts, Hyannis

Online

About Me

Despite working in the Sales and Marketing profession, I struggle to market myself personally on this site. This is my first venture into this type of dating platform, so please bear with me. :)I am an independent, confident, career-minded woman. Over the past several years, I've chosen my priorities - my son and my career.-based company, with it's North America headquarters located in Reading, PA. I am in my 18th year with the company and sincerely love what I do. Travel is a real passion of mine, and with "North America" as my territory, this job has certainly afforded me the opportunity to explore. I am also a single parent to a 16 year-old young man. He's a high-school junior, avid soccer player, and a member of the local JROTC, aspiring to enlist in the U.S. Marine Corps. I am self-sufficient, and own my home, so I haven't felt the need to make finding someone to compliment my life a real priority. Turning 40 has made me re-evaluate my thinking. :) I do miss the companionship and the feeling that I belong to someone, and I am looking for someone who will appreciate me for the genuine person I am, as well as for my accomplishments both professionally, and as a single parent. I'd love to find someone who feels as lucky to be with me as I do to be with them. While I continue to focus on my career, all the success in the world isn't going to mean anything without having someone special to love and share it with.The late night bar scene as a regular activity does not interest me, but I could still enjoy a great dance club every once in a while. I can take my son fishing, then throw on my heels to meet friends to check out a new restaurant or see a live band. I am also always up for a day/night at a sports bar to catch a football or baseball game, or a soccer match. There is also nothing wrong with spending a night in, or on a picnic with a bottle of wine somewhere by the water. I love to cook and entertain, but I could use someone to help me perfect my grilling skills! In summary, I'm pretty much up for anything! As long as there are smiles, laughter, and good company, it's time well spent. I am a big believer that your appearance is a real representation of who you are and the way you approach other aspects of your life. I am not high maintenance, but I do take pride in how I present myself. It's also important to me that the person I am with feels proud when we walk into a room together. I would hope that person feels similarly about themselves, as well. Just to note, my favorite look for a guy for a night out is jeans with a sport coat and dress shoes. :) So, I suppose this wouldn't be complete without mentioning what I'm looking for in a partner: honesty, loyalty, respect, compassion, romance, pride in yourself, the ability to make time for fun as a couple, and have a desire to find that one special person. If you are just looking for a date for tonight, a woman to support you, if you've not been completely honest in your profile, haven't decided on a direction for your life, need to be the center of attention, or can't appreciate the value of a true partnership, please do not try to contact me. My apologies for being a little harsh and direct, but I don't want to waste your time, either.So, how did I do? If there is anything else you'd like to know, please feel free to ask.I look forward to hearing from you! Casual dinner, drinks, coffee, live music, a walk in the park...any would be great. Honestly, I'm not hard to please. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Greek Spanish Music Sport
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Leslie from Hyannis | Woman | 36 years old | Taurus
    Leslie

    Online

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Getting all the fun facts and info out there i am 5'7" Never been married and have no kids so that makes me like the unicorn, a myth or an urban legend, depending on your set of personal beliefs. Now i have been single for a couple years and have decided to try this whole thing out. Must say that some people on here are really interesting, while others are just jerks. Maybe there are some that aren't... hmm which are you? In any case, if you have questions just ask. Happy hunting!NOTE: If you are looking for a hook up and nothing else then i suggest you move on to the girlies on here that are looking for that. Really trying to find someone with a bit of quality and substance to them. Update:Seems that the first couple tries at this were less than successful. It is amazing just how many flaky people there really are out there. Tell the truth and stop beating around the bush already lol.Men mean this when they say:Adventurous - Leave the couch at least two times a night to find something in the fridge.Body Type is Fit - They stretch to get the remote *** yelling at you to go fetch it.Looking for a drama free girl - My Ex was psycho and now i want someone who won't chase me or take me to court for child support.Independent - What i want you to be before i meet you, then i get to stalk you.Real with no baggage - You have enough for both of us.Fun - Until i decide it isn't fun anymore.Open Minded - I want to sleep with all your friends and have you think it is a bonding experience.Self Employed - Gets money from his own account after the money is deposited by the state.Just saying...**** DISCLAIMER - Anyone who takes what i said above seriously or automatically gets defensive.. i'm talking about you lol. Come on people this is just in good fun, why so sensitive? Drinks and some sushi is always good. Maybe take in some lights this time of year and do a walk and talk. Never know if there is no connection that will allow me to duck into the crowd and run off without you seeing me lol.

    Chat
  • Dorothy from Hyannis | Woman | 40 years old | Pisces
    Dorothy

    Online

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I’m a passionate human who’s rather shy, and I’m very open with my feeling, so if you want to learn more, be free to ask. I’d like to find an open person who can share their feelings with me.

    Chat
  • Summer from Hyannis | Woman | 36 years old | Sagittarius
    Summer

    Online

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a single mom of a high strung 17 year old boy who lives and go's just about everywhere I go. I also am just a country girl who will be a Certified Massage Therapist in the Spring and plan to open my own practice. I AM NOT ON HERE LOOKING FOR A SEX PARTNER, HELL YOU CAN GO TO A GAS STATION THESE DAYS AND EVEN FIND ONE OF THEM. If you are all about honesty, morals, and integrity then please by all means message me back. I am not looking to jump right into something. FRIENDS is where it starts at.. I love to go camping, fishing, dancing, taking a ride along the Parkway or just sit home and watch a movie.. I am just me nothing more nothing less.. If you like what you read then send me a message and it will or will not go from there. I am a full time PCA. I work at Home *** agency. I take my career very seriously and don't always have time to message back right away. For that I apologize. Thanks have a great day. Somewhere public but now too loud so we can get to know one another.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: