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Bessie, 30

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About Me

I recently made a career change (from HR to a... drum roll please, a hairdresser) & moved to MA. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made to change careers since my quality of life has greatly improved. I love talking to people & learning about their lives. I do work 3 jobs so I enjoy working hard but also relaxing and having fun. Since my free time is limited I don't want to waste it. One day I hope to own my own salon.I am a very honest person & have no desire for drama in my life. I will say I hate watching sports on tv (see honesty) but love going to them in person. Figured I'd put that out there since it can be a deal breaker with diehard sports fans. I figure it's guy time so go & be with your boys.I absolutely love music & it truly is a part of my soul.I can be what some would say...strong willed but it only comes from a good place. I am compassionate, kind, love to laugh and be light hearted, intelligent, articulate, a perfectionist and can be hard on myself which is something I am working on, hey none of us is perfect right? I know what want out of life & would rather be alone than ever settle. I am authentic & real & will call it like I see it if necessary. I am not interested in a guy who does drugs, a player or only interested in a hookup. I'm too old for that kind of stuff.Attraction & friendship are equally important & necessary for me. I also want a guy who will open the door for me and will throw me over his shoulder....but not at the same time. Also I'm a huge movie buff & kinda dude when it comes to movies. There's much more to me but that's the fun part in getting to know someone. I don't give out my number fast so don't ask if we have only exchanged a few messages. No smokers. If I don't respond I'm most likely not interested. Not interested in long distance. If you are over 40 I'm not interested... If you are too young... Same thing. If you are not open for a potential relationship or kids do us both a favor & do not waste either of our time. Sorry if this comes off bad but I'e received some very odd messages

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Hey! I am a 27 y/o mother of two amazing kids. My son is ***and my daughter is about to be 2. They are the light in my life and the reason I get up every day. I work part-time as a cashier in a grocery store and I am going back to school this fall to start my prereqs to get into nursing school to become an RN. I suppose you can say that is one of my goals for my life right now... make it through school and nursing school and pass my test to be an RN :)There was a time when I used to be the life of the party but as I have gotten older, I have become a bit more reserved. I tend to be more on the quiet side until I have gotten to know someone a bit. I am a people watcher and a very good listener. But be careful! Once I feel comfortable around you, you can't get me to shut up! I love the sun and hate the cold. I wish every day was summer so I could always wear flip flops and enjoy the warmth from the sun every afternoon. I love colorful, bright things but my favorite color is black and my favorite/lucky number is 13... odd combination, I know.

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    It is what it is ;-)I only date white guys, thanks!

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    Dating is like job searching. We all pull out past experiances, best qualities and then when we get the call we put on our nicest wardrobe, biggest smiles and take a leap forward dozens upon dozens of times before actually landing the position or in thus case the man or woman we have been searching for. Its a horrible and over rated process but no one wants to be that crazy person who eventually owns a million domesticated animals and dies alone either so I guess if that means being part of this site, well here I am. :) Im a single mother, I work for a great company, and im still in college to get my bachelors in psychology. My daughter is four years old and is always my top priority. She is number one in all aspects of my life and im very proud of the amazing little girl she has turned I like to go out and have fun. I like hiking, bike riding, mudding, shooting pool, playing games wether its board or a video game im on board and am ready to kick some ass! :) I guess you could say my soul has a good mix of country and rock and roll with a hint of jazz. I can debate for hours on end about anything. I love learning new things, and just bought my first snow board In hopes of teaching myself this winter. I love all kinds of music, and movies...I really have a wide variety and we would be here for hours if I listed them. Fall is my favorite season. Love picking apples, carving pumpkins, playing in leaves and of course haunted houses, hay rides....comfortable hoodies n warm apple cider!!! Love it!Anyway, thanks for reading and if you want to get to know me send a hello my way. The first date should be simple. We could grab a coffee, take a walk, maybe do some window shopping while talking and getting to know one another. Its about getting to know one another, right?

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