• Hobart
• Indiana
• United States

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Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

Sometimes we meet people in our lives that God may not have intended for us. We have our share of good encounters and bad ones....each tested who we are, who we've become and who we want to be. At the end of the day I think that Ive been lucky to meet both. I've had the best people enter my life and I've had the worst. I've had people who have lifted my spirit so high and made me learn so much, enriched my life in ways they will never know and made me grateful to be alive. I've had the worst people enter and leave my life who broke me down, made me question my self worth, and tested me to see how strong and how much i could really take. I've been in love and I've fallen out of it. I've had my heart opened and broken. I've given too much and gotten too little, but I've also gotten so much from both of those. Sometimes its the people in your life who hurt you who actually help your inner YOU more than you know. It's when someone pushes you to the edge....when they make you wanna jump...when they make you feel like you have no options...that you get the strength... I've been on that edge of a hopeless cliff. I've had all my emotional baggage strapped to my back....so heavy and about to tip me over...and it is at that moment...that i chose to jump..... and do you know what happened? I flew.... I let go, I was FREE. I jumped from that ledge of insecurity, of false promises, of endless tears and unbearable grief, of misery and denial, and I left that girl behind. I left everything that I thought was comfort and realized there was more beyond the horizon...just past that cliff's edge....to a place that was not known....and not secure....and away from all I thought was real.....and I soared. And I've never looked back So sometimes we meet people who push us to that limit....because God wanted us to learn that life is all about risks....and it requires you to jump. Dont be the person who always has to think "what if" ..... take a stand, a stand for yourself....for all you are and all you ever wanted to be...let go of what holds you down, what hurts you...what makes you think you cannot FLY..... AND JUST JUMP...... Can't say I've ever went out on dates it's been a while so u will have to be creative! Something comfortable please!

• Hobart
• Indiana
• United States

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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

Originally from the sf valley, lived in other places too. My friends describe me as a strong, loving and vivacious person. I'm looking for a good man to bring out the best in me. I'm sweet, deep, intellectual and passionate. I'm into traveling, cooking, painting, history, movies especially mysteries, concerts, meeting new people, animals, music and the beach. Dinner, drinks and intellectual conversation.

• Hobart
• Indiana
• United States

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Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

I'm a single mom of a four year old boy, I have him a lot but not all the time. I don't get out much and I don't know many people here yet. I'm looking to be friends first. However, in the long run, I am hoping to connect with someone on a deeper level. Most of us are ultimately here for the same reason. I'm just hoping to find someone that can appreciate me for me. I can be silly, and strange, and a little crazy sometimes, but I strive to always be a good person and set a good example for my son.Just to make this easier on both you and me, I will include some of my personal views. Children: I like kids, I can be a silly grown up kid. I have a kid, he's great. Have another child? No. Not up for debate. Date someone that has children? Absolutely. Meet my child? Not until I know I can trust your mental stability. Race: I have no problem with any race. If you do, we are likely going to butt heads.... Cus you're a butthead. However, please understand that if you send me a message that is not in English or French I will have to use a translator, and there will obviously be a language barrier if you do not speak either languages I do. I don't think that makes for a good relationship. Phone numbers/texting: This depends on the person. If you message me with just your number, you will not hear from me. I have been here long enough to realize that giving my number to someone I have hardly talked to can lead to problems. If I feel we click after messaging then no problem, but the basis for friendship has to be there first. Also, I do my best to not be "that girl". You know, the one that texts you constantly. I can take a hint. Mostly I don't want to interrupt anyone's life. If you have the number, text any time. If I'm available to text back, I will. If I don't, please do not send me five more. (Because I'm probably sleeping or working and unable to catch a minute). Hate mail: If you send me a message and I do not respond, I may have forgot to log out. The other alternative is that I have viewed your profile, and there is something in it that does not appeal to me. Please boys, if you don't hear from me.... Realize that sending me a message telling me I'm a stuck up jerk (and alternatives) will be a waste of your time, and I will laugh. Just like I laugh at the tag lines that say things like " all the girls on here are stuck up *** -if you really think that's going to attract a decent girl, by all means... Continue using this site. I wish you luck. And finally, as for my profile stating I am looking for a relationship... I am. I also am cool with just making friends. I'm not going to send hate mail, or get butthurt. You will most likely just get a new friend. Besides, I want to have a friend in a potential romantic partner. It's a great start. If there is no chemistry or spark, there just isn't. We will probably know after talking for a bit. It's really not a big deal to be friend zoned right? :) Something simple and easygoing. Coffee sounds good, maybe a drink somewhere quiet, or a walk at a park.