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TammyOffline
Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 30-40
I've decided to give online dating another try. I'm new to Northern Ca, and figured this would be a good way to branch out and meet people. I am interested in dating and possibly finding someone I can settle down with some day. I'm realistic and don't look for a "husband" in every guy I date. But I'm also not looking for quicky hook-ups or someone who'll play games. That being said, I love to laugh (I know, that sounds generic). But really I find a witty or sarcastic sense of humor very attractive. I am looking for a guy who is physically attractive, but more importantly, likable. By likable I mean: confident (not arrogant), funny (not immature), open-minded, family-oriented, financially stable (I in no way mean rich, I mean someone who can stand on their own two feet even when times get tough), likes music, isn't superficial, is moral and ethical. As for me, I think I have a lot to offer someone who is willing to take the time to get to know me. I'm definitely a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. But every once in a while it's nice to get all dolled up to go somewhere. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, and I probably drop more f-bombs than are considered to be "lady like" :-) I have a large and loud ***Italian) family, one that still gets together for the old fashioned Sunday dinners every other weekend or so which I miss so much since I've moved. I love, love, love all kinds of music. I know people often say that, but I really do listen to a pretty wide variety of music (modern/classic/indie rock, blues/jazz, hip-hop/some rap, pop, classical/opera, Motown, etc)... everything. I spent 5yrs as a volunteer firefighter with CDF, which was such an awesome time in my life. I've been a police dispatcher now just about 8yrs, and really like what I do (most of the time lol). I have 6 tattoos and I may get more, but I definitely try to put some thought into them. I hope I've given enough about myself to get messaged with more than, "What's up". If you're interested please feel free to write. If not, good luck in your search and thank you for taking the time to read this.**P.S. If one of your pictures is of you flexing shirtless in front of a mirror, don't waste your time here. I'll pretty much just laugh and move on to a man who wants a relationship with someone besides himself. Or better yet, if you have one pic of you from a distance and all the rest are of your nice car or other flashy "things", don't complain that you're unable to find a woman who isn't materialistic or fake. Seriously, who do you THINK you're attracting with all that? I don't have any great answers for this. I don't think you can plan the "perfect" first date, it definitely depends on the company. But I'd say something casual that doesn't put on too much pressure.
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PaulineOffline
Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 29-39
I'm a happy go lucky kind of girl. I usually have a smile on my face. My co-workers will sometimes ask why I have to be so happy all the time? I just smile back and ask why not? I figure a smile can go along way. It can sometime help lighten up the mood. I do try to have fun when I can. Though I'm not a party girl. Usually I will just hang out with friends on my days off. Doing stuff like talking, eating, watching movies, tv, anime, and even playing games, such as video games or table top games. Let's see...Believe it or not, I am pretty shy. Or at least shyer then what most think. Hung out with some co-workers a couple time and they were amaze as to how quite I was. I figure it has something to do with how comfortable I am in my surroundings. I do gotta say. I do have a thing for Asians guys. So guess what? If you're Asian your more then likely pushed to the top I the list! LOLUmmm.... Let's see. I like working out at the gym when I can. Gotta keep up my so called figure somehow HAHA! Anyway, I don't really like staying home all the time. I sometimes go on long walks if not doing much of anything. Window shopping is a favorite pass time of mine. Although one of my friends would beg to differ. She feels that there is no point to window shopping unless you plan to buy something. To each their own is what I say. Otherwise, going to the theater to watch movies is fun unless it is a waste of time. Then not so much. Pretty much anything that comes to mind to get out of the house would make me happy. However, when I am not trying to find ways to leave the house, I am usually relax at home and do whatever comes to mind. Usually watching shows/movies on netflix, reading a book, listening to music, playing some kind of game, whether it is video games or table top games. I figure a first date will not consist of going to the movies or anything that would keep us from being able to talk to one another. Granted, it may take me a minute for my nerves to settle, but once they do, should be pretty fun time!
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MindyOffline
Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 28-38
Guess I will start with this. You must have your own car. You must have your own place. You must be able to support yourself! I'm 31 years old with no kids and never been married. I'm completely honest-absolutely no bullshit. I work a lot to afford the things in life I enjoy. I love to cook more than anything, it's my #1 passion in life next to music. I love anything outdoors and just like to have a good time! Being that I've never been married, I want to be. I want to settle down. I want to find a man that is my best friend not just my lover. Someone I can sit at home with on a Saturday night and have a few drinks with and just laugh. And again....I need someone who can support themselves! I have my own house, good job and I need the same! If that not you then do not waste my time!Ill add more later if I decide to stay on here. On a first date a casual cookout or just drinks is nice-no pressure!