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Carmela, 31

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About Me

I would like to say that I am the kind of person that men would want in a partner, kind, funny, caring, happy, a good mom, easy to get along with and I have depth (see below), but everyone has their own idea of the perfect girl. I tend not to wear much makeup as you can probably see in most of my pics. For those guys out there who really care, I am not in top physical condition as I once was as I have been in school for a while. I will soon have more time to swap back into my fun physical activities and get out of the books. I'm not going to be the Next Top Model, but I'm not "fat", overweight, soft/thick enough to have two extra breasts in the back, or in desperate need to sell my couch (so pretty good).I'm looking for a guy ***preferably) that wants to find a great person to become friends with and then maybe something more. He does not have to have a great job, a house, a car, or lots of money, but he does have to like children, be honest, responsible, respectful, good looking (meaning if only your mother tells you you're cute....I probably won't.....seriously..... So if you don't clean yourself it's probably not worth sending me an *** appreciate your efforts {or lack there of}).Ps-I'm actually 5'5.5" and yes the half inch matters! On a first date I like get to know the person a little to see if we click so I usually meet at a coffee shop. I might go for a walk if it's going well. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

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