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Update: I have a LOT going on right now. Studying for midterms, a recent death in the family earlier this month, (October), has put a lot more stress in my life recently. It takes me awhile to process things, and I did not deal with my grief right away. Things are stressful at the moment, and I am really busy. I am normally an easygoing person, but things are weird right now. It may take awhile for me to get back to you, as I am not really in a great emotional space right now. Just being honest : )I am a very enthusiastic person. When I like someone, I get really optimistic, and excited about things. This does not mean I want to rush into some big commitment, because I don't. I am simply a passionate person, who cares about people and causes.I ALWAYS mean what I say, I just may not mean to say it out loud.I am not afraid to make mistakes because I learn from them, and grow as a person.Keeping things simple is my goal- I do not always achieve the goal.My life is going where I want it to go. Humor is a must! I love to laugh, and have a very deliberate, musical laugh. -Haha!I enjoy swimming, and doing things out of doors, equally, I enjoy staying in and snuggling up watching a good indie.I am a great mom most days, and that comes first, but I am more than willing to make time for dating with the right person. I have been doing pilates regularly, and I feel great! I try to consciously stay in the moment, and really feel grateful for my life.Random acts of kindness are necessary, and I like to involve myself in caring about others. I believe in karma. I think people should think more about God, carbon footprints, smiling, and metaphysics.Art is important. Laughing is important. Being a person of character is important.I really like people who are outside of the box, and not afraid to be who they are. I dislike pretense, and meanness. I find I am attracted to intelligent, dorky types. I think the most important quality a person can have is good communication skills, so I am working on mine. Nobody's perfect, but I think it is important to have long term goals, and take steps to improve. I understand that few will have what I am looking for, but I am confident that you are out there reading this. I desire something very real, very simple, and light-hearted.I get nervous around quiet people.I also enjoy playing board games. Beware!!! I won't let you win just to get on your good side- seriously I will most likely win, so please be enough of a man to lose gracefully : ) Let's go out, and do something fun, but not too loud- I want to get to know you. We could go bowling, play mini golf, or go skating. The batting cages would be really fun too! Pretty much anything at FunLand.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I still believe in love and am looking for my awesome man. I am attracted to a gentleman who is chivalrous, ambitious, adventurous, and witty. I'm a city girl who is still acclimating to the rural/outdoor life, but absolutely love Bend and all that it has to offer. Im looking for someone who has figured out (for the most part) who they are and what they want out of life, but is still excited about possibility, adventures, and hopes to have an amazing life with their girl. Some of my favorite things include vanilla lattes, the smell of firewood, the first snowfall, sunsets, new travels, beautiful eyes, and great smiles. I'm always pretty open to any idea for a first date. A walk along the river, happy hour, a drink somewhere... anything really!

  • Nancy

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Im a single mom 2 boys. I love concerts, sports and just having a good time. Im not really sure what I want right now! But I know Im not liking sitting back til I figure it out. SO for now I would like to meet some people talk and see how thi ngs go! PLEASE DO NOT REPSOND IF U CAN ANSWER YES TO ANY OF THE FOLLOWINGI LIKE TO LIE TO MAKE MYSELF FEEL BETTERI LIKE TO BE A DOUCHBAGIM A TOTAL FAKE AND DONT CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT MYSELF!If these statements do not apply to u then we should be able to get along great! As long as we are having a good time I dont care

  • Allie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I'm looking for something that has the potential to turn into long term. I realize that can't happen immediately. Ultimately, I want the ease of being with someone. I want to know someone well enough to know what their looks mean and have them know mine. Who am I?I'm an honest, kind, generous, and easy going person. I have a good sense of humour and love to laugh. My family and friends mean the world to me and I really would do anything for them. I have a huge heart with lots of room for everyone. I come off as kind of hard but am truly a soft person once you get to know me. I looooove music!! (I'm on a Foo Fighter and Pink kick right now). I plan to learn how to play the drums and have just started lessons in guitar(just don't ask me to sing! :s) I kill it at band though lol.I have also discovered that I really enjoy going paintballing...soooo much fun!!! I am currently completing the Addictions Caseworker diploma program through McMaster to further my career. I work as a residential counsellor in a group home. I'd like to get back into working out and living a healthier lifestyle. I would love to meet someone who would support and encourage this as well as be a part in it themselves. If you are honest, kind, respectful and enjoy a good laugh feel free to send me a message. I'll get back to you no matter what.BTW I'm horrible at starting conversations on here. I'm actually pretty outgoing but for some reason find it difficult to figure out what to say. So, please try to overlook what may be a lame ***, I get over it quick! ;) Anything that can allow us to talk and get to know each other better.I think something like bowling or mini-golf would be a great option. It gives you a chance to have some fun and get to talk.Of course coffee or dinner would do that too. ;)

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