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Effie, 32
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

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“I don’t like most guys, but… I am not interested in most guys and besides perhaps that what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special.Myself: I am 32 yrs old alittle about me I am analytical, and opinionated.With that being said I often find myself blunt and to the point. I will not BS you and I expect the same. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I am a full time student, Ive reached a point in my education where im not sure what direction to go after meeting with several school officials and against their better judgement I am taking this semester off to figure things out. I have met my fair share of Dbags on here, im ready to find someone who will appreciate me. Also I realize I live in WI and you may live in MN this isn't a problem for me, but if it is for you.. your loss! I personally don't mind driving out there I actually find it quite relaxing and if your gonna be scared of alittle distance your prolly not the man for me! I truly believe if 2 people want it bad enough they will do everything to make it work... and I know I am worth it are you?You: Honest, mature, gentleman, emotionally, mentally sane, Knows how to treat a lady the list can go on and on but ill keep it to a minimum. I require attention im not needy so don't get me twisted however I would like to be apart of someones life not just a convenience.. who can't seem to make life choices with out consulting with their mom. I respect the closeness of family but if you can't hold your own****in life and require that much from your mom I am not the girl for you! Break the tie.. and be your own person! I am not a "needy" kind of girl. And will not stand for a "needy" kind of guy. If you can't live without me thats a turn off! Now with that being said it's simply nice to have someone there for companionship to hang out with. I work over nights therefore my social life kinda sucks point blank! I go to school during the day which makes it that much harder, and there will be times where im pulling in a 2nd Job. I am a very Independent kind of girl. I don't need anyone I would like to have someone theres a huge difference. But if your calling my phone 3x back to back and sending numerous texts your not gonna get a nice reply. Im not deaf nor blind I can hear the phone call and clearly see that you have no need to call continuously PET PEEVE #1. Again this means you gotta grab your own****. cuz I refuse to this is the biggest turn off! I expect you to be able to carry on with your life without me having to give you some sort of direction. I am not your mom and refuse to act like it.. put your big boy panties on and be a MAN!What im looking for idealy: I am looking for my best friend n life, Someone who will not judge me for my past and any future mistakes I may make. I want a guy who will walk beside me in life, and be able to step behind me to catch me in case I fall, and/or step in front of me to protect me when in need. I want a guy who will support my ideas and goals no matter how ridiculous they may seem. I want someone I can fall in love with everyday over and over. I want a strong man who can handle my weak moments. I am not at all impressed with this website I think there is more "Larry the cable guy" type of guys then guys im actually attracted too. No offense but I would like to find someone I can relate too, and not have to spend extra time trying to understand what he's trying to say. Also my biggest pet peeve #2 if you can't spell a word try to re-word it with a word you can spell..I am not dictionary and I will mis-spell a word from time to time it happens but if 99% of your msg is some Ebonics type crap your talkin to the wrong girl and it wont warrant a response, pet peeve #3Lastly, If I so happen to click the "meet me button" It doesn't automatically mean I wanna meet you face to face... I am simply saving your profile so I can go back and analysis it further I simply felt I was slightly attracted to you wanted to learn more about you. And if I don't respond to you don't be a dang weinerbasket. I am simply NOT interested and don't have the heart to tell no im not attracted to you. Move on im not the only girl on this site.Anything you wanna know feel free to ask, if you start out a convo with how old are your kids.. thats creepy and you will not get a response my children shouldn't be your primary focus.. you creeper!!Happy Fishing!!!** I do have children who are my entire world, however this is a sensitive subject for me and if I feel like sharing that part of my life with you then you should feel extremely privileged** Something laid back, something fun where we aren't in a nervous setting! Maybe bowling, mini golf, both of which im not the greatest at but it could turn into something fun! We can go for a stroll, or heck maybe even hiking... or fishing..( oh wait I never got my fishing license , haha nevermind) Something not serious so we can just be goofy together is ideal. Not my ideal date: Im not an out to eat kinda girl... one I am not gonna order a salad and act bulimic to appease you. I like to eat, but the one thing I would however be worried about is if I have some sort of pepper or food stuck in my teeth. That is a pet peeve, and the whole talking with your mouthful is definitely not a turn on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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