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Selma, 34
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

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About Me

Namaste !!"I honor the place in you, where Spirit lives;I honor the place in you, which is of Love, of Truth, of Light, of Peace;When you are in that place in you, and I am in that place in me; Then we are One !!"--> I have a guideline for my life that I roughly try to follow !! I try to keep it as simple as possible !! A framework that is very flexible, but allows me to do what I feel is right; and what will ultimately allow me, and those around me, to have a fair and happy existence !! I call it the 4 L’s !! These are: Live, Laugh, Love and Learn !! It may seem simplistic, but they can be interpreted in a number of ways !! Alone, they are little without respect and responsibility !!--> People can come and go from your life; but family is forever !! My family means the world to me, and I would put everything that I was doing on hold, if I knew my family needed my help !!--> When I think of my achievements or ambitions, it makes me feel inspired to be the best person that I can be !! And it also gives me faith, that you can do anything that you want to in life, if you just put your mind to it !!--> The important qualities, that I look for in a prospective date are: honesty, loyalty, good sense of humor, smart, hard-working, family oriented, charming personality, open-minded, happy and fun to be around !!--> It would be nice, for a prospective date to share some of the same interests and passions, as I do; but I also feel, that some diversity also makes a relationship !!--> I’m my opinion, the "key" to any lasting relationship is trust, compromising and communication; because nobody is perfect !! --> I am open to any experience(s), that comes my way !!Cheers & Happy Fishing !! The possibilities are endless !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 29-39

    Like everyone says...It's always difficult to write about yourself. So here's a short list until I can sit and be more creative...I consider myself: - open minded - sincere - trustworthy - free spirited - quirky - submissive - respectful - compassionate - appreciate common sense - animal lover - femi***adventurousWhat I look like:- 5'4, 110lbs - long blond straight hair, blue eyes - athletic/fit, petiteThings I'm "into": - outdoors, fishing, camping, campfires, boating - staying fit & healthy eating (but appreciate snacks***soccer & hockey - taking the dogs to the dog park - beer & Caesars - playing pool - relaxing in the hot tub - cooking & cleaning (odd, yes...but I like clean & organized***friendly - travelIdeally, I'm looking to find an outgoing, open minded, attractive and fit, feminine woman to explore this curiosity of mine. Just take the time and get to know each other and see where things go from there. No pressure. I am in a 7 year relationship with a man and he is very open to my life choices. I am NOT looking for a threesome...just a gf for me :) Women only! No men or couples please. I don't mind if you are in a relationship I just don't want to be a third.

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  • Cecelia from Carol Stream | Woman | 32 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 29-39

    Friendship is always a possible outcome. I met two of my favourite peeps on this site. And you should know that I'm putting a serious effort in finding the right match, beyond friendship. My match is a vibrant, fun, sexy, loving woman (preferably a bit of a smart ass) who will make effective communication a priority in relationship. My match is my primary partner who is excited about discovering what's possible with secondary partners (either as a couple or separately). This will take trust, honesty, and confidence from us both and we would both be willing to work through any concerns and would always put our relationship first. She has her own ambitions and hobbies, and we would have a blast going to tantra workshops, camping trips, and snuggling on our movie nights. My match is also busy doing/building what she loves. We make time for each other because we want to, not because we need to. Here's a little about me so you can see if I'm your match. I like quiet time and loud time, being busy and being still, living healthily and splurging, socializing and solitude. I'm spiritual and logical. My dog is super important to me. I'm a bit of a smart ass too. I have a couple aspects to my career, but bottom line is, I love to empower people to live their dreams. I'll tell you more once we meet. Life's scars give us character and I love getting to know all of one's lights and shadows. That said, self-awareness and personal growth are important to me. Support me in my dreams while I'll support you in yours! My path includes continuous personal and spiritual exploration, and as intense as that sounds, it's a ton of fun and full of inspiration! I'm not much of a small talk girl. Would rather meet up after a couple messages if we know we're interested. Probably a drink to take the edge off but I'm also open to "doing something" like hitting up a comedy show, or a workshop of some kind. I'm open to ideas too of course.

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-36

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