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Cathleen, 34
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

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If you really want to get to know me, send me a msg.....Ok a lil about me, I'm a mom of 4 great kids, that keep me pretty busy, I share custody w their dad, so I have them alot, if you don't like kids, then move on...BTW if we start dating and things go well, you won't meet my kids till its on a serious level. I'm looking for someone that wants friends first and move forward from there, I believe in a great friendship to make the relationship work. I go to church and love GOD, not a bible thumper at any means, but enjoy goin to church and being around people that are happy! I'm laid back, like to take things slow, not in a rush to get married tomorrow, but would like to again in the future. I like spring and fall more than summer and winter. Like to be outside, Love to laugh, and spend time w family and friends. Wanting a christian man...Wanting someone w a romantic side. Someone that can make me laugh. I'm looking for a man that is considerate, kind, loving and has a good heart. Someone that is great w kids, if you have kids, great, even if you don't, I prefer it if you are around them, I've dated guys that say they want a relationship but don't want to take on the 4 kids that come with it, we are a pkg deal, take it or leave it. I prefer a non smoker also.I want to feel loved and wanted, the type that can't wait to talk to me or can't wait to see me and spend time with me (but I don't want someone that is too clingy)...I want someone that I can't stop thinking about, I'm tired of being alone and want to find my best friend, lover, and be happy. I want someone to love me for who I am, and not what they want me to be. Also, if you don't have a pic on your profile, I won't respond..and no I wont give you my *** number to send me a pic..sorry!I don't like the whole BBW thing for myself..so I'm trying to change that about me, so far have lost 40 lbs and counting, so I'm working on that, I don't go to the gym, but I enjoy walking or going to the park or working outside and just watching what I eat, would like someone that is supportive in that area also, someone that enjoys the same interests as I do..I'm not looking for someone that likes to play games and lead me on, that won't get you anywhere..I am NOT looking for one night stands, or FWB, so don't ask! Don't be afraid to start up a conversation, you never know where it could lead! If anything, I have some new friends..But please don't get offended if you send me a msg and i don't respond back. Please have a recent pic, not one of you back in high school, or 10 yrs ago..I wanna know what you look like now, since I have done the same, it's only fair.. Anything else, just ask! Thanks for looking and hope to hear from you soon!PS. If I favorite you, it's because I liked your profile, and your pics, and maybe one of these days you just might get the courage to send me a msg, or I will do the same..LOL Go for dinner & a walk in the park. Or some place where we can talk and get to know each other. It all depends on the person & the season..Really doesn't matter to me, as long as we are enjoying ourselves. It's been way too long since I have been on a date. Or SURPRISE ME!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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