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Bobbi, 31
United States, Illinois, Carol Stream

Offline, last seen Tue, 03 Mar 2026 02:33:05

About Me

When people ask if I want the good news or the bad news first... I always go bad news first. I like to get the bad news out of the way and end on the good news! Bad news- I bite my nails, I can be kind of type A with my list-making, and I also cuss like a sailor... And as opposed to learning it from my rancher father, I actually picked it up from my cute little grandma! That's a pretty good segue into why I am on meetville. My grandma got sick last year and was in the hospital. My grandpa sat by her bedside. She'd say "You there?" and he'd reply "I'm here." I want that. I don't need it now, but I'd like to start building to it. I always knew being in such a strong relationship took work, but I guess I recently realized that it takes work to find too. So here we are...Admittedly I am realizing that I may not be cut out for online dating. I am a really good communicator and I expect people to return the favor or at least the effort. I know it's easy to make split second decisions about people on here but I just have one request: treat me with the same respect I would treat you. If I message you and I'm not your cup of tea, that's ok if you don't reply. I'll get the point and appreciate you not wasting my time. But if we chat back and forth or make plans, please follow through even if it's to tell me you changed your mind. Hopefully not sounding too full of myself... I'm a really awesome woman in what seems to be a shortage. I come from a great family, I have my sh*ttogether and I'm one of those people that everyone wants to be around. So please don't waste my time... I'd rather be spending it with people who are willing to make an effort to get to know me or who already have and love me!Thanks for reading! :) Meeting for coffee and then a walk at the park, or maybe catch a yoga class together. I like bars and restaurants, but I like to leave that for second or third dates. Lots of laughing!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Irish Japanese Crime Martial Arts Romance
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

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