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Jaime, 31
United States, Illinois, Buffalo Grove

Offline, last seen Mon, 11 May 2026 18:16:04

About Me

Ok time to update this. Why? Well because im bored, have time and I think some people might be seeing me in an incorrect light. True I am super honest and blunt to a fault. You will never be wondering what I am thinking. Ask and I will tell you. Let me get this outta the way since this might be as far as some of you will read. Im not here for a hookup. I like to think im cute enough I dont need meetville to help me with that. Also I will not message you back if you have nothing to say. I am not the type of girl who after 2 messages will give you my number so dont give me yours. I dont have to constantly be talking to someone to make me feel good about myself. Im fully confident in myself and what I bring to the table and dont need constant attention to make me feel content in my life. Breathe!However I do need the comfort of free flowing conversation that comes with ease. I hate the “job interview” aspect of dating. I want to know some of the oddities and quirks that make up the whole before I meet someone. We both might like dogs and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches but that doesnt mean I can stand to be stuck in a car with you for over a hour. As I said Im honest. Id just say this is not gonna work and leave or maybe suggest we take some shots and then ill help you pick up some other chick. I like to think Im a pretty well rounded person. I can hang with the guys and can find the dirty, perverted humor in almost anything or let my bff cry on my shoulder over breaking a nail or some other girly stuff. Im a great friend to those I love. I sing way to loudly in my car and honk and wave at random people walking down the street. Both of which my dog hates. I know myself quite well. I know what physically attracts me and what does not. I am not locked in by this but I am not above admitting it. I will ALWAYS ask if you have nice teeth and it will be the first thing I notice about you if we meet. I enjoy a good bed picnic and change up my home almost as much as I change my hair color. A drive down a gravel road makes me smile as does seeing old people still holding hands and in love. Jesus and I have recently become tight again and Id like to find someone with the same mindset. He has his hands full with me but I have faith in his plan. I'll never pass up a reason to dress up. Be it Halloween , 80s nite at the local bar, St Pattys. I love them all. If you are confident enough to join in even better. I wont judge you unless Im telling you that Im judging you. If you can make awesome bbq ribs and we can eat them which watching the game on Sunday you are 5 steps closer to my heart. Im going to laugh at all your profile pictures of you with your shirt off that is unless you are super fine then Im going to look twice. Your spelling mistakes will drive me crazy but I wont use capital letters when I message you back. Your mom will love me and not even know why. I will constantly grab your butt when we are walking through Walmart. I want to find love but will not settle because I get lonely at times.Id like to find someone that can look at that random list above and see themselves happy in that situation. Some will, some will not. You have to know yourself before you can look for what will complete the other half. Thanks for reading and Good Luck to all. Havent been on many dates so i would not be good at this response. As long as im comforable with you the surrounds are just a back drop. Depends on who does the asking is what I say. Something that shows anything about you. Im finding more and more men putting- i would let the lady decide(outta respect or some BS like that) now come on thats just laziness and lack of creativity on your part. Women dont like that

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Pop Dance Swimming Adult Animation Comedy
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