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Carmen, 32
United States, Illinois, Bourbonnais

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About Me

I'm a vivacious but laid back woman looking for her partner in life. I've put my career first since graduating college, but realized I want to work to live for my family and myself *** living to work. I want to find someone I can explore the world with (whether that's the side streets of NY, Thailand or South Africa or anyplace else), share leisurely weekend mornings in bed, kiss in the rain, and much more. But most importantly, I want to meet someone I can both laugh with and who will hold me up when times are bad. I can appreciate the standard first date of drinks, dinner and/or movie...but I'd be blown away by creative twists to each. For example, picnic in the park to watch a movie outside or drinks at a rooftop bar where you can catch the best view of the sunset

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Portuguese South American Spanish Adventure Horror Snowboarding To Work Out
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    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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